hi! my caretaker, alex, is having troubles at school with a kid and she wants a fourth opinion on what she should do about it!
so, there’s this kid in two of her classes and one of her lunch periods whos kinda weird and won’t leave her alone- actually, i’m just going to hand this over to alex so she can type it all
okay, so i’m having this issue at school with this kid, for privacy reasons we’ll call him bee. bee is a nice kid but he doesn’t really know personal space and i’ve had issues with another kid well call reynolds before. reynolds we think is autistic or has a different issue that’s like that and he was sexually harassing and assaulting literally every single girl in our school. the school never did anything about it. but this isn’t about reynolds, this is about bee. bees always up in my personal space and i’m not a very social person so when it comes to talking and doing stuff like that, it drains a lot of my energy and bee doesn’t understand that for some reason. and i’m pansexal and asexual and nonbinary and even though my pronouns are she/they, i’ve asked him several times to stop calling me a girl and he’s not listening.
my mom and my friend both think that i should still be his friend, which i’m fine with bc it’s kinda nice having a friend, but talk to him about stuff like this.
i’ve talked with him multiple times and it’s not really doing anything.
the whole reason i’m even doubting our friendship is bc he keeps kissing my hand and making sexual jokes about things and commenting on my body, NOT my outfits MY actual BODY.
par example, i wore a tight tank one day and he comes up to me and was just like “oh, i thought you were flat bc you’re wearing a hamilton hoodie all the time,”. it took a few seconds before my brain had processed what he said and i can’t even remember what i said back, i think i just started ignoring him at that point but bee didn’t take the hint. so he moves to my other side and starts messing with my necklace that’s on my chest, keep in mind, i have two necklaces on, both at different lengths and he chose to mess with the longest one. not the one that was closer to my chin. and he kept staring at my chest. i was like, i’m already dysmorphic over my chest and my body in general, stop fucking looking at my biggest insecurities. another one of my insecurities being that i have what i guess is called “strawberry legs” or something like that. idk all i know it’s that i have the little red bumps on my legs and he’s always asking me if i’m cold and running his hands in the holes of my pants and like basically touching my thighs he’s going that high up.
so i just don’t know what to do and when i texted him about it he just sent a whole bunch of laughing emojis
“🤣😁😄😅😰😥😢😭😭😭😭” is what he sent. emoji for emoji. deadass just copied and pasted it.
and so this account isn’t super popular yet so i’m thinking about posting it on @visionrailmepls but that’s strictly for marvel and pjo and i don’t really wanna stray away from that
and he’s rlly nice but at the same time i think he thinks we’re dating when i’ve made it clear several times that 1. i’m gay and 2. i have no interest in dating, especially while i’m in my sophomore year of high school, like shits serious rn.
and like i’m boarder-line aromantic
