Also the replies on my last reblog are atrocious holy shit. You can say “hey maybe don’t call trans women dude or bro as a default and gauge someone’s comfortability with how they’re addressed before calling them something that could be seen as very gendered (or literally just ask them).” And people will be like “erm. I’m just gonna do that anyways because I built a habit and it’s your fault if you get offended by it. I’m not transphobic btw 🤷♀️😋” like actually slam your fingers in the car door.





















