Black Tourmaline

Work so hard every night & day and now we get the pay back.

[spoiledandclassy-deactivated202]

Mood board: Black women in luxury💃🏿

[priestessofcreation-deactivated]

You know, I’m a Sag moon, so you’d think I’d need adventure, but I actually really need routine.

[sugarbuttabowl]

Lmao this.

[conjurinmama]

💀💀💀

[laduree-et-cigarettes]

Everyone needs their own signature look. Even if it’s ripped off from your favourite character from a film you like, maybe it’s just wearing the same coat you love till you wear it out completely, a favourite repetitive colour or a style from another era, perhaps a person you’ve read about, fiction or non-fiction, real or not has inspired you. The point is, we all need to find that special way of dressing ourselves that makes us feel like the main character of our own private novel.

[theladyintweed]

Early 20th century diamond bracelet by Tiffany’s, circa 1910 

S. J. Phillips 

[theguyleftthebuildingha-deactiv]

[sugarbuttabowl]

My 2020 vibe. BBHMM. We stan a bad bitch.

[sugarbuttabowl]

I’ve been busy babes. Don’t be like me. Be better than me.

I feel like when it comes to sugaring, success comes easy when you treat this like a full time job... I, on the other hand, have been treating this like DoorDash. Peeking in to see if there’s anything good and slinking back into the abyss after seeing a lackluster inbox.

SA finally reinstated my profile after not one.. not two.. but three emails regarding an unsolicited suspension. I’m treading lightly because I really want to give this a shot. I’m far from new to the sugar lifestyle but an online platform is certainly new territory for me.

My charm is the charmiest in person 😅

So with that being said, I’m refreshing my profile this week and boosting over the weekend.

Wish me luck 💕

[nsaint1]

Classy Nude 🥂

[greelin]

$50,000 immediately dropped into my bank account wouldn't improve EVERYTHING but boy it sure would be a grand, sexy little start to a good, happy life path, don't you think

[meilintheempressofdreams]

Reblog for unexpected $$$ dropping into your Bank account.

[sugarbuttabowl]

So I tried SA this weekend after feeling pretty indifferent towards it for the past few years. I’ve heard the whispers of discrimination towards black women on this app but I figured, what’s the harm?

Just when I thought the sugar bowl on SA was getting sweet and man.. it was getting sweet..

BOOM. SUSPENSION.

Completely unprecedented.

Completely unwarranted.

SUSPENSION.

I know for sure I didn’t violate any terms but it inspired me to document the trials and tribulations of the “Brown Sugar Bowl”..

Stay tuned.

[sugarbuttabowl]

24 hours later. I haven’t heard anything back from support.

[high-maintenancee-deactivated20]

I hate how black men bash us black women especially with me being dark skin. It’s so crazy how they’re the ones that make fun of my complexion more and call us ghetto and aggressive. They try to make us feel as if we have to carry on the legacy by having black babies,they don’t appreciate us at all. Can respect their mothers but not us?? I’m over them,how can I go about dating outside our race? What’s ur opinion on this whole thing?

Remember I said when you peep game- join in. This is a potential problem we have to deal with in men of all groups because we are seen as being at the bottom. Therefore, we need to be equal opportunity women and vet them all the same. Men of certain backgrounds will tend to meet your standards more often, but keeping your options open across the board will help your odds. The mistake black women have made through and through is that while may require a white man to have it together we tend give other men passes and for some women it’s vice versa. Don’t be either, wether a man is black, white latino or Asian, you need to vet him like a high maintenance women. Having a diverse network will help you get a bigger palette.

Do not factor in his possible systemic problems; your mood should be “fuck you pay me”.

He either has it together or he doesn’t. This is what true divestment is. And do not let subtle racism or colorism slide. You shouldn’t have to deal with those problems in your personal life. And if you do let those things slide you better milk the situation for what it’s worth. He should respect your culture and background. However don’t be political. Don’t fall for the trap of having to educate someone on basic human rights. They are bullshitting you if they even suggest that and should be cut off. (Or used) You choose.

[hypergamygimme]

[brownsugar-dreams]

I bought a website...

I love sharing my personal experiences and tips with you all. This community has given me so much and I want to continue to give by sharing my tips, routines, and perspectives on the ways I have found success. I will still be posting here but my website will be more of me and allows me to reach a larger scale.

Meditating, manifesting, and magick have changed my life and I want to give everyone the tools to be successful in all aspects of their lives. Topic highlights include:

Introduction to meditating, manifesting, and magick

Moon spells and candle magick to increase financial abundance

How to freestyle effectively

Get paid for your time and monetize yourself

How I left my abusive relationship and upgraded my life

Tips for being a spoiled gf

Healthy food and juicing recipes

Hair and skin routines and schedules

Advice column

Guided meditations

Over 200 related eBooks

And so much more

***I want to emphasize this is a newsletter based advice column. I am NOT soliciting to be your SB coach because I strongly detest that scam as I was scammed by a so called “SB coach” when I was first starting my level up journey. There’s no reason you can’t find success by yourself. You are your best marketer, salesperson, product, etc. My mission is to give YOU the tools to be successful in all your endeavors as well as share my own success stories and help foster your own financial freedom. I’m so overwhelmed by the love and support of this community. Feel free to continue to reach out to me. I’m here for you, with love 💕

Brown Sugar Press

Lifestyle and advice column

[thefatgirlfinesse-deactivated20]

Y’all ready?!?

[sugarbuttabowl]

So I tried SA this weekend after feeling pretty indifferent towards it for the past few years. I’ve heard the whispers of discrimination towards black women on this app but I figured, what’s the harm?

Just when I thought the sugar bowl on SA was getting sweet and man.. it was getting sweet..

BOOM. SUSPENSION.

Completely unprecedented.

Completely unwarranted.

SUSPENSION.

I know for sure I didn’t violate any terms but it inspired me to document the trials and tribulations of the “Brown Sugar Bowl”..

Stay tuned.