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[sunnymeddows]

This is basically the making of Radio Ga Ga, right?

[jaybird-todds]

I still have about $300 left to pay the funeral home cremating my mom so they can actually do that. They say I have until the 14th or they will start adding an extra $50 every day she's there after. It's not their fault, I understand that's how it has to be, storing a body is expensive and the longer she's just there like that, the less space they have for others.

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[not-rlly-a-person]

Young Sherlock tripling the cannon interactions between Mycroft and Lestrade. A win for Mystrade shippers everywhere.

[corazondecenicero]

Geena Davis and Susan Sarandon reuniting for Thelma and Louise 30th anniversary (2021)

[jaybird-todds]

My mom died and I'm the one who is taking care of everything while my sister does fuck all with her new boyfriend and leaving her kids with my grieving step-dad.

I have to play the funeral and her cremation and pay for mini urns for her brothers and my stepdad and my nieces and my aunt and stepdad and sister--

I need some support to get the funeral shit done because I'm apparently the only one who can do it and I have no help,,,

Venmo - CashApp - PayPal

I'm tired. I haven't even cried yet.

[jaybird-todds]

I have a definitive $350 cost to get my momma cremated and shipped to me. That's all now. I'm very much glad for the support I've gotten so far and I really appreciate y'all. The urns for family are on their way now.

Shipping everything out is gonna cost a lot but I hope my Uncles will way for that.

Just me kinda yapping under the cut.

Ugh. Still haven't really just...grieved yet. Like, yeah, I cried really hard when it happened but it's just... not real Tommy brain. My stepdad is drinking himself to death and my aunt finally thanked me for taking it all on and that nearly made me break down. I think I'll finally feel it when my mom comes home.

I'm tired. Also wasn't a great week to start prozac.

[jaybird-todds]

$300 left. I really appreciate everyone helping and sharing this post. It's hard to do this alone and I really love the community outpouring of love.

[jaybird-todds]

Still at about $275 needed. Please share this. I'm sorry to keep on this but jobs haven't been giving call backs and my family is still no help at all.

[obnoxiousbloodstain]

I don’t mean to be problematic but I feel the best example of platonic vs romantic grief is Roger and Brian

[jaybird-todds]

My mom died and I'm the one who is taking care of everything while my sister does fuck all with her new boyfriend and leaving her kids with my grieving step-dad.

I have to play the funeral and her cremation and pay for mini urns for her brothers and my stepdad and my nieces and my aunt and stepdad and sister--

I need some support to get the funeral shit done because I'm apparently the only one who can do it and I have no help,,,

Venmo - CashApp - PayPal

I'm tired. I haven't even cried yet.

[jaybird-todds]

I have a definitive $350 cost to get my momma cremated and shipped to me. That's all now. I'm very much glad for the support I've gotten so far and I really appreciate y'all. The urns for family are on their way now.

Shipping everything out is gonna cost a lot but I hope my Uncles will way for that.

Just me kinda yapping under the cut.

Ugh. Still haven't really just...grieved yet. Like, yeah, I cried really hard when it happened but it's just... not real Tommy brain. My stepdad is drinking himself to death and my aunt finally thanked me for taking it all on and that nearly made me break down. I think I'll finally feel it when my mom comes home.

I'm tired. Also wasn't a great week to start prozac.

[jaybird-todds]

$300 left. I really appreciate everyone helping and sharing this post. It's hard to do this alone and I really love the community outpouring of love.

[jaybird-todds]

My mom died and I'm the one who is taking care of everything while my sister does fuck all with her new boyfriend and leaving her kids with my grieving step-dad.

I have to play the funeral and her cremation and pay for mini urns for her brothers and my stepdad and my nieces and my aunt and stepdad and sister--

I need some support to get the funeral shit done because I'm apparently the only one who can do it and I have no help,,,

Venmo - CashApp - PayPal

I'm tired. I haven't even cried yet.

[jaybird-todds]

I have a definitive $350 cost to get my momma cremated and shipped to me. That's all now. I'm very much glad for the support I've gotten so far and I really appreciate y'all. The urns for family are on their way now.

Shipping everything out is gonna cost a lot but I hope my Uncles will way for that.

Just me kinda yapping under the cut.

Ugh. Still haven't really just...grieved yet. Like, yeah, I cried really hard when it happened but it's just... not real Tommy brain. My stepdad is drinking himself to death and my aunt finally thanked me for taking it all on and that nearly made me break down. I think I'll finally feel it when my mom comes home.

I'm tired. Also wasn't a great week to start prozac.

[nerd-writer]

☆julen☆🏳️‍🌈 (@artbyjulien) • Instagram photos and videos

463 Followers, 2,092 Following, 1,208 Posts - See Instagram photos and videos from ☆julen☆🏳️‍🌈 (@artbyjulien)

One of my OCs, Koren, done by my friend Julien for my Echo story ❤️

[nerd-writer]

☆julen☆🏳️‍🌈 (@artbyjulien) • Instagram photos and videos

463 Followers, 2,092 Following, 1,208 Posts - See Instagram photos and videos from ☆julen☆🏳️‍🌈 (@artbyjulien)

Echo done by my friend Julien ❤️

[nerd-writer]

☆julen☆🏳️‍🌈 (@artbyjulien) • Instagram photos and videos

463 Followers, 2,092 Following, 1,208 Posts - See Instagram photos and videos from ☆julen☆🏳️‍🌈 (@artbyjulien)

One of my OCs, Li, drawn by my friend Julien

[nerd-writer]

☆julen☆🏳️‍🌈 (@artbyjulien) • Instagram photos and videos

463 Followers, 2,092 Following, 1,208 Posts - See Instagram photos and videos from ☆julen☆🏳️‍🌈 (@artbyjulien)

Li again drawn my friend Julien

[sunnymeddows]

:D

[jaybird-todds]

My mom died and I'm the one who is taking care of everything while my sister does fuck all with her new boyfriend and leaving her kids with my grieving step-dad.

I have to play the funeral and her cremation and pay for mini urns for her brothers and my stepdad and my nieces and my aunt and stepdad and sister--

I need some support to get the funeral shit done because I'm apparently the only one who can do it and I have no help,,,

Venmo - CashApp - PayPal

I'm tired. I haven't even cried yet.

[jaybird-todds]

Thank you to everyone who was able to contribute. I received about $150 USD. I was able to help my step-dad pay a bill that was usually covered by my mother's disability check. Any more that comes in will be used for arraignments for her memorial service, cremation (which is already mostly covered by my uncles, I just have to come up with the other $600),nmini urns for her siblings and my step-dad and my sister for now (I'll worry about myself later, I'll be the one receiving her when she's cremated and the 5 urns are already $125)... ugh. She was only 59 and had no life insurance that I know of.

[jaybird-todds]

I now only need about $300 to get her cremated and I got the urns ordered. I really really appreciate all of you.

[jaybird-todds]

My mom died and I'm the one who is taking care of everything while my sister does fuck all with her new boyfriend and leaving her kids with my grieving step-dad.

I have to play the funeral and her cremation and pay for mini urns for her brothers and my stepdad and my nieces and my aunt and stepdad and sister--

I need some support to get the funeral shit done because I'm apparently the only one who can do it and I have no help,,,

Venmo - CashApp - PayPal

I'm tired. I haven't even cried yet.

[jaybird-todds]

Thank you to everyone who was able to contribute. I received about $150 USD. I was able to help my step-dad pay a bill that was usually covered by my mother's disability check. Any more that comes in will be used for arraignments for her memorial service, cremation (which is already mostly covered by my uncles, I just have to come up with the other $600),nmini urns for her siblings and my step-dad and my sister for now (I'll worry about myself later, I'll be the one receiving her when she's cremated and the 5 urns are already $125)... ugh. She was only 59 and had no life insurance that I know of.

[jaybird-todds]

I now only need about $300 to get her cremated and I got the urns ordered. I really really appreciate all of you.

[jaybird-todds]

My mom died and I'm the one who is taking care of everything while my sister does fuck all with her new boyfriend and leaving her kids with my grieving step-dad.

I have to play the funeral and her cremation and pay for mini urns for her brothers and my stepdad and my nieces and my aunt and stepdad and sister--

I need some support to get the funeral shit done because I'm apparently the only one who can do it and I have no help,,,

Venmo - CashApp - PayPal

I'm tired. I haven't even cried yet.

[jaybird-todds]

Thank you to everyone who was able to contribute. I received about $150 USD. I was able to help my step-dad pay a bill that was usually covered by my mother's disability check. Any more that comes in will be used for arraignments for her memorial service, cremation (which is already mostly covered by my uncles, I just have to come up with the other $600),nmini urns for her siblings and my step-dad and my sister for now (I'll worry about myself later, I'll be the one receiving her when she's cremated and the 5 urns are already $125)... ugh. She was only 59 and had no life insurance that I know of.

[jaybird-todds]

My mom died and I'm the one who is taking care of everything while my sister does fuck all with her new boyfriend and leaving her kids with my grieving step-dad.

I have to play the funeral and her cremation and pay for mini urns for her brothers and my stepdad and my nieces and my aunt and stepdad and sister--

I need some support to get the funeral shit done because I'm apparently the only one who can do it and I have no help,,,

Venmo - CashApp - PayPal

I'm tired. I haven't even cried yet.

[monkeybombergirl]

I love how everyone treats adhd as a moral failing even people who otherwise have reasonable stances

[monkeybombergirl]

"you people can't do anything" Yeah disabilities limit your ability to do things you dumb fuck