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GOOD MORNING
Grunting at the shrill sound of the alarm, you roll over attempting to get as far away from it as possible. You had been up until two in the morning and was not feeling very awake only three hours later.
However, the warmth you expected was not reached till you ungracefully flopped on to the floor. Now wide awake and irritated you walk over to the alarm to turn it off and drag yourself towards the bathroom.
Ten minutes later, now freshened up, you catch the smell of fried eggs and bacon causing your stomach to let out a growl as if to say 'Smell it later. Let's go eat now.'
Smiling to yourself you enter the kitchen to see your husband!Mark carefully shifting the fried eggs and bacon to your plate before placing a mug next to it.
"Morning, sweetheart!" you greet him with a peck on the cheek as he smiles at your state.
"When did you go to bed?" he asks while gesturing you to sit down. "I tried staying up but I fell asleep before you came to bed."
"Around two, I guess," you grin. "At least I finished half of the unit."
Shaking his head at your 'let-me-kill-myself-but-pass-my exams' mood he started digging in to breakfast.
"You burnt the eggs again," you giggle at the slightly burnt eggs.
"It's ok, I'm improving," he grinned, embarrassed.
After cleaning up the dishes you grab your coat before taking a seat on the sofa as you waited for Mark to finish his shower.
"You ready?" he enters the living room while checking his wallet for his keys and phone.
"I got the keys," you jingle the car keys at him as he laughs.
**********
"When are you getting off today?" Mark asks you after giving you a kiss on the forehead.
"Prof. Lee said his surgery is after lunch so around five?" you answer while stuffing your scrubs into your bag which you discarded on the backseat the previous day since you had to use the bag to carry your stained jacket.
"Can we go out for dinner or you have more to study?" he questions as he tucks lock of hair behind your ears.
You coo at his consideration before peppering his face with kisses. "No, I finished it all last night."
It's a lie but you know you can finish the last bit if you pull another all-nighter.
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Pairing || Jungwon (Enhypen) x fem reader
Genre || Fluff, comfort
Word count || 476 😁
Warnings || Reader is a bit insecure? Pls tell me if there's anything I have to add
Feedback is very much appreciated. Enjoy
GOOD MORNING
Grunting at the shrill sound of the alarm, you roll over attempting to get as far away from it as possible. You had been up until two in the morning and was not feeling very awake only three hours later.
However, the warmth you expected was not reached till you ungracefully flopped on to the floor. Now wide awake and irritated you walk over to the alarm to turn it off and drag yourself towards the bathroom.
Ten minutes later, now freshened up, you catch the smell of fried eggs and bacon causing your stomach to let out a growl as if to say 'Smell it later. Let's go eat now.'
Smiling to yourself you enter the kitchen to see your husband!Mark carefully shifting the fried eggs and bacon to your plate before placing a mug next to it.
"Morning, sweetheart!" you greet him with a peck on the cheek as he smiles at your state.
"When did you go to bed?" he asks while gesturing you to sit down. "I tried staying up but I fell asleep before you came to bed."
"Around two, I guess," you grin. "At least I finished half of the unit."
Shaking his head at your 'let-me-kill-myself-but-pass-my exams' mood he started digging in to breakfast.
"You burnt the eggs again," you giggle at the slightly burnt eggs.
"It's ok, I'm improving," he grinned, embarrassed.
After cleaning up the dishes you grab your coat before taking a seat on the sofa as you waited for Mark to finish his shower.
"You ready?" he enters the living room while checking his wallet for his keys and phone.
"I got the keys," you jingle the car keys at him as he laughs.
**********
"When are you getting off today?" Mark asks you after giving you a kiss on the forehead.
"Prof. Lee said his surgery is after lunch so around five?" you answer while stuffing your scrubs into your bag which you discarded on the backseat the previous day since you had to use the bag to carry your stained jacket.
"Can we go out for dinner or you have more to study?" he questions as he tucks lock of hair behind your ears.
You coo at his consideration before peppering his face with kisses. "No, I finished it all last night."
It's a lie but you know you can finish the last bit if you pull another all-nighter.
Your disabilities, mental illnesses, or conditions do not make you hard to love. You are valuable and lovable as you are.
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Guys should i open this?
i opened for u and-
go ahead ig
this jeno 🖤
good things will happen 🧿
things that are meant to be will fall into place 🧿
THIS ONE FUCKING WORKS. REBLOG IT.
We really used to ask teachers if we could drink water.......what the fuck was that
Or to use the bathroom and they really said "no❤️"
i had a vision last night before falling asleep that was basically "2, 4, 10" so your 2nd 4th and 10th emoji determine how your october's gonna go
life is not success. life is not grades or achievements. life is refreshing naps, drinking your favourite drink, movie night, hugging your best friend, laying on grass, funny videos, seeing your plant bloom, the days getting longer, candles, finding a piece of clothing that’s just so you, complimenting people, personal handshakes, that one song, cleansing showers, smelling flowers, cute book or coffee shops, cute prints, finishing a notebook. this is truly what life is. the smallest things.
this makes me more determined to clog people's dash with jaemin content 😔🖐️
wait did... did THE BLUEJAEM notice me!?!?!? for all the wrong reasons though 😩
actually what's happened is that i've been ✨a tad bit✨ too invested in enhypen these days...
i am pleading guilty your honor 😳
consider: teenagers aren’t apathetic about everything they’re just used to you shitting all over whatever they show excitement about
Teen: *gets a job*
“I GOT THE JOB!”
Parents: Well, when I was your age, I already had 5 jobs and was supporting my family
Teen: *gets all A’s*
“I worked really hard!”
Parents: Well, of course you did, this is the expectation, not a celebration.
probably why so many teens take to social media where they can enthusiastically share their interests and achievements and get positive feedback that their parents never gave
A LITTLE LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
I remember once, when I was in my early 20s, I was an afternoon supervisor at my job, and I worked with mostly teenagers, and the one day this one kid, who was like 15, was bored so I suggested he could clean out the fridge. He did and when he was done I said he did a good job.
After that, this kid was cleaning out the fridge at least once a week, and I was like, “why are you always cleaning the fridge?” Like, I didn’t mind, but it seemed odd. And he said, “one time I cleaned the fridge and you said I did a good job. I wanted to make you proud of me again.”
Literally, I changed the entire way I interacted with teenagers after that. I actually got a package of glitter stars and I would stick them on their nametags when they did a good job, and they loved it.
My manager had commented on how hard these kids work and I said, “they’re starved for positive feedback. They go to school all day then come to work all evening and no one appreciates it because it’s expected of them, but they’re still kids. They need positive feedback from adults in their lives.”
Like, everyone likes feeling appreciated. Everyone likes being complimented and having their efforts be noticed. Another coworker (who was a mother of teenage children), hated that I did this, and said they were too old to be rewarded with stickers, but like… it wasn’t about the stickers. The stickers were just a symbol that their effort was noticed and appreciated. I was just lucky that I learned this at a time when I was still young enough to remember what it was like to be a teenager. I was only 2 years out of highschool at that point and highschool is fucking hard. People forget this as they get older, but ask anyone and almost no one would ever want to go back and do it again, but they expect kids to suck it up because they’re young so they should be able to do school full time, plus homework, and work, and maintain a healthy social life, and sleep, and spend time with family, and do chores and help out at home, and worry about college and relationships and everything else, and then just get shit on all the time and treated like they’re lazy and entitled. And then they wonder why teenagers are apathetic.
For a german exam I had to argue against an article that was essentially „kids these days, they don’t care about anything and are constantly on their phones“ and really it was the easiest essay I‘ve ever written.
Teens don’t talk to adults bc adults only ask „so, how‘s school“ to then interrupt them two sentences in. And because they can’t engage in a conversation about buying houses and working in a bank. I would’ve loved to talk about philosophy and politics and history with family the way I did with friends and in class but because I was young no one took what I had to say seriously.
And no, teens aren’t always on their phone. They’re on their phone when they’re bored. You think I‘m on social media when I‘m with my friends? When I‘m talking about something I‘m interested in?
Maybe the reason kids are so distant and always on their phone during family parties and the like is because you‘re failing to engage and include them.
Whoop there it is
When you respect kids, they really respond and learn from you. But if you treat kids like “theyre just a kid, what do they know??” then you’ll never find out.
As a Disneyland Cast Member, I’ll add my own experience onto this –
Very frequently, when I first speak to a child while I’m at work, they’ll kind of withdraw and act uncomfortable and shy. Their parents will then rather frequently tell them to not be shy and try to coax them to talk to me – whenever that happens, I always, without fail, politely dissuade the parents from pressuring them.
“I’m a stranger,” I’ll tell the kid’s parents. “I don’t blame them for not talking to me – if they were anywhere else, they’d have the right idea, to not immediately trust me.”
I cannot tell you how many times I’ve seen that same kid – simply after hearing their initial reaction being validated, instead of reproached – immediately open up to me after that. I also cannot tell you how many times that child and I would go on to start a friggin’ marathon conversation, and I got to hear all about how great their day was or what their favorite Disney movies were or what rides they liked and didn’t like or how much they like a certain Disney character or song…all from me validating that initial feeling and showing genuine interest in what they had to say.
This isn’t just young children, either. I will always remember being positioned outside the Animation Academy one day and starting up a conversation with a young lady, perhaps 12 or 13, who joined the line with her father a full 25 minutes before the class was supposed to start. Now keep in mind, we do a drawing class every 30 minutes: there was no one else in line at that point, and no one else joined the girl and her father in line for a full fifteen minutes. So I could tell pretty quickly that this girl was very emotionally invested in getting a good spot for the drawing class: a conclusion all the more bolstered by the fact that she had a notebook under her arm. I asked her if she was an artist – she said yes, but seemed uncomfortable at the question, so I skipped even asking her if I could see her work, instead admitting that I myself wasn’t very good at art, but that I’m trying to get better and that I love the history of Disney animation. On the screens around us was video footage of different Disney concept art and animation reels, so I pointed one of them out (for Snow White) and asked if she knew the story behind the making of the movie. Upon confirming that she didn’t, I proceeded to get down on the floor so I could sit next to her and her father and dramatically tell the whole story of how “Uncle Walt” created the first full-length animated motion picture, even though everyone and their mother thought he was an idiot for even trying, and how the film ended up becoming the first Hollywood blockbuster. After the story was over, the girl’s father said that his daughter really wanted to be an animator when she grew up, and she finally felt comfortable enough to open her notebook and show me some of her artwork. It was wonderful! Every sketch had such character and you could tell how much work she put into it! And I could tell how much telling her that – and sharing that moment with her, where we got to connect over something we both really enjoyed – had meant. And after the class was over, she sought me out to show me what she and her father had drawn – and sure enough, hers was great! (Her father’s was too, really. XD)
People, kids and teens included, love sharing what they love and how they feel with others. You just have to give them the chance to show it.
A LITTLE LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!
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I feel like I am obliged to add one more thing: don’t ever think that the kids won’t feel your unspoken judgements cause they do!
I felt always like a ‘problem’ in my family, until I was about sixteen, I got this teacher who was litterally the first to tell I was worthy. He changed my life up till this day.
Also how do grown ups imagine how ‘we’ will ever learn to engage in conversations with adults properly if you don’t teach us?
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Everything
I told one of my new coworkers (who is 26) that he was doing really well and that I was proud of him and his progress. I thought he was going to start crying for how quietly he said “really?”.
Positive feedback makes the biggest difference to everything.
i’m extremely lucky that i’ve always gotten positive feedback and proper attention + engagement from my parents.
i can count on one hand the times i’ve gotten it from anyone else.
teenagers are so attached to their phones at school because it’s one of the only things we have all day that makes us feel vaguely alright
Zare why would you hide this nugget of glorious truth in the tags this is literally everything I want to say but couldn’t figure out words for it
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@bluejaem
Jake: What if mayonnaise came in cans?
Ni-ki: Well, that would such a bummer because you can't microwave metal.
Jungwon: Good morning to everyone except these two people
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キ SIM JAKE AS YOUR BF!
ᜌ — he confesses through a grandiose attempt, but ends up losing his composure and brain cells to the nerves and excitement anyways and ends up drifting off so much from his oh-se well prepared speech or script. it's honestly so heartwarming to witness the mighty and confident king jake stumble upon his words and it makes your heart swell so much.
ᜌ — he likes to brag about his significant other to everyone. he adores the fact that you accepted him of all of the other people that you could, not that he ever really admits his disbelief to you, because he has to keep up his image around his s/o haha. he also likes to get you matching stuff for a similar reason and he practically never takes off the ring you had gifted him. it's one of his most prized possessions ever.
ᜌ — he doesn't push you too much, because he understands your needs after having picked up on your little cues. he doesn't prod more than necessary whenever he sees you upset over something. he knows that when the time is right, you will tell him by yourself. he also doesn't get too heated while he feels jealous, contrary to popular belief i guess. he does end up going silent for a little while and that's how you notice how bothered he is by some other person acting too close with you for comfort.
ᜌ — he will always carry a bottle of water around just for you, because he is that kind of a person; tease you about every little thing you do; call you by a new, but still sweet nickname; take you out on fun and entertaining dates; scream about his exciting moments with you and jump around on your bed.
ᜌ — he will never leave you upset with his brash actions and always apologizes, even if it is difficult for him at first. he doesn't think that his pride is more important than your hurt feelings. even if it's something like a prank, if he has gone too far with it, he will drop the game and make sure to make it up to you.
ᜌ — he makes sure to keep up with your interests too! also, he will always make sure that the sheets are covering your body properly before he falls asleep next to you too, not wanting you to feel cold at night. he also has to absolutely make sure that you know that he considers you layla's other parent hahaha.
ᜌ — his favourite things to do to you are waking you up in the morning; giving you a high five any time you accomplish something even if it isn't that large of a deal; tying your hair for you if you need to; calling you with his own surname as though you are legally married; recording layla and you playing together at the park; rub your back in small circles to make you fall asleep faster while you bury your face in the crook of his neck; tapping your cheeks with his index finger; kissing you, obviously; playing with your hair and sometimes even making weird and funny hair styles out of them, biting your shoulder lightly any time he comes to give you a back hug, nuzzling into your cheeks afterwards.
ᜌ — his habits range from slipping his hands into your sweater if he is cold so you end up feeling his freezing fingers on your waist, which is always a shock. he also doesn't realize that he always touches you in some way, whether it be his feet, knees, or shoulders— he just can't keep himself off of you. jake also has made it a habit to kiss your lips every time you sit down next to him. it's an automatic practice and he does it without much thought haha.
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