do you know any kdramas/kmovies with mothers abusive towards their children? Behaving perfectly on the outside but serving them hell at home so no one believes the kid; loving themselves more than the kid and neglecting them; abandoning the kid on trivial matters; making a mess of kid's feelings, that kinds of things. All I can think of is Jihyuk's mother in Shut Up Flower Boy Band, Eunsung's mother in White Christmas, Joon-young's mother in Worlds Within and mothers in Pinocchio. Thanks!
This is actually a pretty tough one, since a lot of dramas, it’s pretty plainly obvious when a parent is cold (thanks, chabeol parents??), or the conflicts come out of good intentions. But let’s see...
Both moms in Bride of the Century are... pieces of work, that’s for sure. There’s even a grandma who did some questionable things wrt her own son...
Birth of a Beauty, Valid Love, and Emergency Couple all have some vaguely [waves arms around idk] emotionally trying or manipulative actions, but they’re in-laws so I’m not sure if you’d really count that (I do, though).
Kill Me, Heal Me definitely has some of this going on in Cha Do Hyun’s family (like BoTC, they sure are something). This is probably the strongest instance of it, imo.
You’re Beautiful has one of these too, Tae Kyung’s mom ohhhhhhhhhh boy what a mom.
if you want to get into technicalities, the entire premise of City Hunter sort of comes from really fucked up parentage and they don’t really gloss over that fact at all, ever.
And then you’ve got the more “well, people know they’re kind of assholes bc they’re chaebols and while they act like their shit is in the best interest of their child, it’s really self-serving bullshit to maintain their ‘class standards’ or force them into a certain line of work.” like. Heirs. Mary Stayed Out All Night (seriously, forcing your kid to maintain an engagement to someone she doesn’t love to pay off your own debts, and continuously pressing this point for basically the whole of 16 episodes is so awful). My Lovely Girl. Secret.
Some more so than others, obviously, but these are all the ones I remember offhand where I was just endlessly agitated at the parents’ behavior and how it caused so many needless conflicts for their children (or just emotionally screwed them up via manipulation and shit).