hi guys. i hate hate hate making posts like this, but this is important information that needs to be shared publicly, because this is going too far. i want to inform and warn others about this so i can finally leave it in the past.
i need to talk about angelichughes (also known as sweetestdesire on her old blog), because right now, iām really hurt and honestly just confused. brynn was someone who i met in the outer banks fandom years ago, and she was a sweetheart. all my interactions with her were lovely, and i was always supportive and spoke highly of her. eventually, we went our separate ways when we joined different fandoms.
the reason i got in contact with her again wasnāt for good reasons. someone informed me that she had been stealing my work, which was heartbreaking. as someone who always tried to be there for her and treated her with nothing but kindness and respect, i just couldnāt wrap my head around it. but then i saw it for myself.
these are just a few of the posts she had stolen from me, under the cut.
i didnāt want drama. i just wanted it to stop, so i reached out to her privately. she acknowledged it, and i felt relieved, thinking it was over. hereās that conversation and a screenshot from a previous interaction we had.
later, it came to light that she had also taken from many other blogs, word for word, and even from a lot of erotica websites, which eventually led her to deactivate her blog. she recently came back under the name @/angelichughes, and the first thing i did was block her, just to protect my work. i was fine with her returning to tumblr, as long as i could be left alone.
however, iāve now found out that sheās still taking from my blog, and i just canāt describe how upsetting that is. here are the screenshots of her first drabble, next to screenshots of my work. itās not word for word this time, but itās strikingly similar and she uses the exact same pictures i used. if this didnāt convince you, then look at the asks. itās copied exactly from the ask i got. i had already suspected this in the past, but it seems like she sees content on other blogs she wants to take, and then sends the ask they got, to herself.
iām not sure how or why she even took from me again, especially after i made sure to block her immediately this time, but this has gone on long enough. iām sharing this to warn others, and to prevent her from targeting more blogs like she did before, considering she was able to hide this for 2 years on her old blog. this is not okay in the slightest, and it needs to stop. and once again, this post is just to protect writers, not to cause drama.
It has taken me a little bit to collect my thoughts on this because the past day and a half have just been rant and opinion after another, which I am so glad individuals are speaking out, but I have felt so overwhelmed.Ā
That being said, I have had a pit in my stomach since the win.Ā
At first, I felt some pride in a few of the individuals representing the USA, but that all went away the second I realized the true implications of the win, especially after I saw that video of them on the phone with Tr*mp.
They have made this win less about representing the USA, but rather a celebration of their own hateful values and an alignment with a power structure rooted in white supremacy and bigotry
And I just cannot stop thinking about the womenās team that has been playing their asses off for years to get the recognition they deserve, and the way they were treated as an afterthought and a joke by all the men in that room. It was completely disheartening and gut-wrenching to see.
These men have mothers, sisters, wives, daughters, and other women in their lives who have helped them get to this point, and yet, when given the chance to acknowledge women as equals rather than accessories, they chose silence, mockery, or alignment with power instead.
That choice is what hurt the most.
Furthermore, seeing the Hughes brothers in particular go onĀ Good Morning America, smiling and completely missing the point of why so many people (women especially) are upset with them, is baffling.
That media appearance felt less like accountability and more like image management.
I want to see an apology, and I want to see men making strides to, both publicly and privately, be more respectful to women.
And Jackās comment about how āeverything is so politicalā is infuriating. This win became political the second they got off the ice, allowed the head of the FBI to get drunk with them on taxpayersā dollars, and started foaming at the mouth at the opportunity to shake hands with a known predator, abuser, and powerful man.
Lastly, I keep seeing individuals on all platforms repeating the sentiment, āthat people should never expect better from rich-cishet-white men.ā And as I sit with that idea, I realize how harmful it actually is.
Lowering the bar doesnāt protect us from this shitty behaviour, but rather normalizes it.
It is not naive to have hoped that this new generation of players would do better, or that they might represent a more just and inclusive vision within hockey culture. Even if that hope was disappointed, striving for a better culture and a higher standard still matters.
Accepting less only guarantees that nothing changes.
People watch and fucking love women's sports!!!
Sports should be more affordable and accessible to all!!!
Queer and trans folk deserve safe places to participate in sports!!!
And racism is not a side issue in sports, it is embedded within the system!!!!
first of all iām so sorry everyone but iām planning to quitting writing and just get rid of all my fics anyway iām still not super duper sure about if iām gonna continue to write (for now at least maybe one day ill be back)
i love you guys so so much all of you are amazing people and writers thank you for making this experience such a special one. i wish you all the best in life
iād like to give a special thanks to all my beautiful mutuals whom i love so much!
sorry this isnāt everyone but this is th epeople whos users i rememebrr well @kaidostwin @juviabrainrot @yinyqngg @levihanmyotp @emvss @xoxojisu @grenadehearts @cryinggirlnamedhelen @narcjsistx @kumasakka @kaiaasecho @taibami (we just became mutuals too ā¹ļø) @arisu79 @reverd-ck+ ALL OF MY OTHER BEAUTIFUL MUTUALS
im joikinh huys dont worry nano stopped me from doing this by using her secret alpha powers i will not be leaving hehahshahhshsha im just lazy and have no motivation to write š sorry dont hate me
for those who are possibly thinking of coffin anon's wellbeing and health, i am deeply saddened to say that we had lost a member of the community today. i had gotten an ask an hour ago from coffin anon's friend that i felt was too personal and important to be just simply responded to like any other normal ask, so i've decided to just inform you all in a way that is formal, and does not disrespect the message of her passing. if it's okay with everyone and coffin anon's friend, i'd like to keep the message in my inbox as i'd said, it felt too personal to just put it out there and i feel that it would be inappropriate and disrespectful to just reply to an ask with such importance in a matter, and i do not want any disrespect or harm done in any way at all.
coffin anon was someone we all looked out for, and she touched people's lives with her story. she was a strong woman who fought and fought and fought until she couldn't anymore. she is a testament of the mark you could leave on people's lives, no matter how short or small they were. she had been someone we all enjoyed talking to, had good laughs with, and i know that somewhere out there, in an alternate universe right now, she still is. it is an honour, as a tumblr blog, to be a part of somebody's life. i write silly made up stories to dump a need to write out there, and in the process, had led me to meet such an amazing and incredible group of people, and my heart still hurts to think that we have lost a part of the family today.
coffin anon, our time spent together was short, but you have impacted my life for the better. you have taught me that life, the most fickle thing of all, should be spent every second, every minute, every hour, doing everything you can to live life to the fullest, and do things to the best of your ability. you will always be remembered here in the blog, and you live on in our hearts, and in our minds. rest in peace, beautiful soul. until we meet again.
tw : very brief mentions of pedophilia, grooming, homophobia and sexual harassment.
hi! iām rei and iāve been writing for enhypen since 2022 (this is my second account revamp), but iāve been lurking around enhablr since 2021. iāve noticed some misguided words, especially from new enhypen writers due to recent events, and decided to make this post, so please make sure to read thoroughly.
first of all, i want to painfully break it to the ones who started their accounts in 2024, who thought that enhablr was a safe space, and tell you that it is not one. it has NEVER been one.
now, iām not saying that to make you disappointed and want to quit, but simply to tell you the truth behind it all. i think there was an illusion created around this community, behind the pretty themes and fluff works, that blinded the people who werenāt actively a part of enhablr, and had just joined us.
in 2021 we had blatant pedophilia with the 02z, brief moments after they debuted, when they were just 18. the community was still a bit messy since enha was a rookie group and fresh out of i-land.
in late 2021, and especially 2022, we began seeing enhablr take some form, but with it, we got a terrible like to reblog ratio and some plagiarism. late 2022 had more pedophilia again, now with sunoo, who had just turned 19, and had adults posting nsfw works for him on the day of his birthday. plagiarism began getting strength and many writers had both their works and banners / layouts copied.
in 2023, during the very start of the year, we had more pedophilia cases. this time, with writers. a grown man with an account named mintchocolatesunoox verbally harassed many minors with sexual asks and threats. we also had a 30yo writer named luna interacting constantly with minors and treating them in a way that crossed boundaries.
we had cases of homophobia with writers avoiding and blocking other lgbtqiap+ writers and reasoning it with their religion. not only that, but we also had another adult jumping into conclusions when a minor blocked them for being uncomfortable, saying the hate anons she was getting were from the minor, when it wasnāt. plagiarism got even worse at this time.
there were also more grown adults writing smut for jungwon when he turned 19, and at the end of the year, their target was ni-ki when the korean law changed the legal age from 19 to 18 years.
this year we had islamophobia, people refusing to acknowledge and share about the ongoing massacres and genocides around the world, more plagiarism, writers using AI to write their works with no shame, and minors consuming smut.
these are only some of the countless problems surrounding enhablr, not including the intern problems that werenāt outed.
many of these situations got worse as the conflicts began leaving tumblr and started going to other apps and group chats. iām not saying the issue is on making friends and keeping contact outside tumblr (because i even encouraged it creating servers and such). the biggest problem is how so many people arenāt holding their friends and the ones who do these types of things accountable.
itās not about doing it and apologizing, itās about apologizing, changing, and holding yourself and others accountable. the memory of some people seems like one of a goldfish, completely ignoring the behavior of those who didnāt even apologize, and moving on.
enhablr was never safe, because we, writers, didnāt make it safe. the ones without morals are finding space to act like this because we are giving them space. if we do want to keep these people at bay and make enhablr a truly nice community we have to start really calling out and educating the ones who are doing and saying horrible things.
start by doing it privately, trying to educate them. if it doesn't work, call them out, no matter who they are. donāt condone their wrong actions and hold them accountable if they donāt post a pronouncement or change their behavior.
donāt let things slide and donāt think mutuals or friends shouldnāt be educated too. we are all still human and commit mistakes, but keeping practice of them is not and will never be normal.
so if you think something is off, say it, talk it out, post it. donāt let it keep happening. the change always starts from inside out.
