#*biphobia

[princessbubblegumandjustice]

It’s okay if you personally are not a sexual person. You can do whatever you want. I don’t waste my time caring about that. However, stop framing all wlw as pure soft babes who never think of sex. Stop erasing people’s sexual nature. Stop implying being a sexual being is something nasty or to be ashamed of because you think your aesthetic is more important than the diversity that exists in our relationships. Especially stop putting down straight people and mlm because they’re “icky” and “do (something sexual) unlike us wlw.”

I do not at all hate breaking this to you:

We’re not always contemplating how soft her skin feels or how pretty her hair is. Sometimes we see a girl and just think she has a nice ass.

We’re not always buying each other flowers or books. Sometimes we buy each other sex toys or lingerie.

We’re not always on the prowl for our one true love. Sometimes we’re looking for a no-strings-attached one night stand.

We’re not always making sweet, gentle love. Sometimes we have rough or kinky sex.

It’s not uncommon or controversial for us to be interested in sex with women. 

[princessbubblegumandjustice]

Being bisexual is a privilege even if you disagree because you get to disguise you sexuality so easily that you can avoid homophobia by just sayin "oh here's my boyfriend or husband" or whatever. Don't fucking tell actual queer people how they should identify or feel about their sexual identity and how they link that to their personality. You have no fucking right.

Disguising your sexual orientation isn’t a privilege. Saying so means that gay people who haven’t come out yet are also privileged. Being in the closet or hiding your sexual orientation isn’t a privilege. And I am an actual “queer” (ew, take your slur elsewhere) person. 

No one is exempt from criticism and I sure as hell am going to call out people who help create stereotypes by falsely equating their sexual orientation with their personality or try to convince people that not being straight is somehow superior.

That same thinking, the idea that sexual orientation influences your personality, is what leads to stereotypes. It’s why gay men are labelled as feminine, lesbians are labelled as butch, and bisexuals are labelled as uncommitted sluts.