i made a mental connection so now i wanna see how correct it is
i am a system and...
... was NOT emotionally neglected, but have chronically ill alters
... WAS emotionally neglected, and have chronically ill alters
... was NOT emotionally neglected, and does NOT have chronically ill alters
... WAS emotionally neglected, and does NOT have chronically ill alters
nuance (put it in tags plz?)
theory: at least on an individual basis, systems who grew up emotionally neglected may be more prone to having chronically ill alters in-sys because those thoughts of wishing they were sick/injured become internalized and establish themselves as the only way to get emotional needs met and paid attention to.
please rb/share for sample size! i really want to know if i'm onto something here or not---















