sinday headcanon asks / @molloyed
how does their foreplay go down?
like having a god damn python slowly squeezing the oxygen out of you while hissing in your ear. no, but seriously, santiago gets a kick out of being wanted, gets a kick out of being worshipped, holding people's attention but he also gets a kick out of having power over the other. foreplay is nothing but a series of attempts to reduce his partner to a whimpering mess. he's handsy and reeeally takes his time with foreplay. but i think what he really excels the most at is dirty talking. whispering and purring dirty things into someone's ear. but also a bit humiliating? embarrassing? a lot of rhetorical questions while he has his claws hands down the other person's pants. a lot of condescending, belittling, derogatory shit.
his foreplay vibes are literally this post:
is your muse dominant or submissive or both?
santiago is mostly dominant. he likes having the power. he likes being the one in control of his partner's pleasure and its' timing. he likes to watch others come undone because of him. it's always about santiago doing something to others and not others doing something to santiago --- no one gets to control him. he's never the one being head over heels. the power scale when it comes to romance and sex should always favour him.
or. you know. that's what he tells himself. because when he truly falls for someone and is desperate to be chosen and seen and praised by said someone, THEN santiago becomes very willing. when he is truly obsessed in love (???) he'll submit if that is what is required to get the apple of his eye's attention.