one thing ive been trying to assess since last night is ‘how do i feel?’. quite frankly, i do not know how i feel. what i know is that im glad i spent my time with ma gurls and arie last night, drinking eating sushi. i got even happier that this morning i shared a good laugh with dinda and unta, laughing our asses off of farts, planning our next trip, drinking animo. i have nothing to complain other than the fact that my mom kinda annoyed me with the whole ‘25 and u gotta get married’ thingy. i mean, i pretty much spent my birthday with people and things that i truly love.
but still, how do i feel knowing the fact that im no longer in my early 20s? tbh, i feel a bit..purposeless..
well, career-wise, i dont have to worry about it.
hmm... i guess im coming in to the year of being 24 with a big mission, to find my purpose in life (other than career).
so, dear future risma, maybe i can help you a bit to find out your life purpose by sharing these #18for2018 resolution:
1. learn a new hobby. (hint: wall climbing, maybe photography?)
2. volunteer. so you know that you are more than blessed with all the things that you have right now and also to give back
3. read 12 new books this year
4. save up money for Cappadocia with Mom
5. always apply the ‘less than 1min’ rule to get shits done
6. call your mom min 1x a week
7. always be a nice person at work
8. learn how to cook mom’s signature homemade sayur bayem + ayam goreng
9. exercise min 3x a week
10. PLEASE BE CAUTIOUS WITH YOUR DRINKING HABIT. limit to 1x a month
11. stop building walls :)
12. buy each of family members a birthday present
13. send hand-written birthday cards to your loved ones min 5 persons
14. buy that expensive ass noise cancelling headphone
15. more meaningful date nights with friends
17. always make up your bed every single morning
18. make a grateful-note every week
