if i unfollow someone it’s bc i don’t want to see certain things on my dash not because i’m trying to send some Message™️ or anything. yeah it’s a bummer to lose a mutual but you don’t have to read more into it than necessary and that’s taken me a while to learn
mutual culture is so toxic tbh bc it makes me feel like i have to tolerate things that make me uncomfortable or that i just rather would not see because i don’t want to make someone mad or hurt their feelings and that’s so annoying lol
moral of the story is i’m gonna try to keep my dash a place that makes me happy and also assume others are just doing the same









