Hello! Love the blog and I wanted to ask a question about something confusing that I just noticed. While rewatching seasons 3 and 4 of gg, I got really confused about Rio’s expectations. After how Beth felt in season 3, and the level of hostility between them, why would Rio want her to freely choose him? Or think that she would want to over herself? From Beth’s perspective- which is filled with entitlement-even though she tried to kill him and stole from him multiple times she felt suffocated and backed into a corner(cutting her in then cutting her out, Lucy, the hot tubs, ignoring her during that pitch in the bar- which he knows is one of the things she hates b.c of Dean and feeling overlooked) Why would he think she would want to pick him when from her perspective it doesn’t really seem like she had much reason to? (Even though we know he is not the source of her problems- she doesn’t seem to think that) There’s no way he didn’t know she felt like that so why would he trust her or expect her to pick him over herself? Or think that things would be different this time? Thanks I’m advance for reading this!
Thanks so much!
I'm assuming from this ask that you might be referring to Rio's specific expectations in 4.08 when he thinks that Beth chose him only for her to betray him at the last second to turn him into the Secret Service.
I haven't rewatched the episode or scene in a minute, but I think it boils down to a few things:
I think Rio means it when he says something to her along the lines of asking her to admit that she has more fun with him just before the cops roll up. There's a part of him that hates the game that they play—most particularly when she double crosses him and he's losing or vulnerable—but there's another part of him that enjoys it even in spite of himself when he's losing. He enjoys being surprised by her, watching her getting her hands dirty, and most of all, coming up with the counterattack. In contrast, I don't think Beth had the same relationship to losing in their game (she had spent so much of her life losing already, and Rio always had the true upper hand in their relationship), but I think Rio projected onto her and thought she did. In that sense, I think he predicted that she wanted to be in this cycle with him as much as he wanted to be in it with her, but as we saw in the back end of season 4, what Beth really wanted was to break the cycle and build something real—but it was a step she felt he had to make first.
Underneath that, too, is the fact that in Rio's mind, he's chosen Beth many times over—from sparing her in 1.02 and directing his gun at Dean instead in 1.10, to giving her the money in 2.04 and allowing her to strong arm him in 2.06, and picking Lucy over her in 3.05. I think he expected her to do the same for him, and honestly, I think she would've—if the choice hadn't been between him and Annie & Ruby.
Add to the mix the recent milestones they've gone through, too, and Rio's logic isn't that baseless. Beth's moral descent in 4.04 and "If I bake another cookie, I'll die" speech has enough truth and realness in it that Rio believes that Beth not only wants but can handle the life that he lives. Their reignited intimacy in 4.06 also tells him that Beth still harbors some attraction and feelings for him that he's had for her as well. And their confrontation in 4.07 was significant—he finally called her out, and she acted like she picked him. And like I said: I do think she would've if it had been possible to do so without sacrificing the very people she would sacrifice herself for.
Rio was hurt and upset and on the verge of vengeful when he realized he was wrong, but I don't think he understood what he needed to do to change the cycle they were stuck in until he thought he was losing her to Nick. At that point, he was able to stop playing the game and prove to her that he was choosing her, and she was ready to meet him and choose him, too.












