#4windz mods

[debunkingsystemscringe]

Hello! Can you explain the difference between endos and DID?

i think you're asking for the difference between truamagenic and endogenic as there can be endogenic did systems and truamagenic systems without did or osdd.

endogenic means your system formed not from truama (not without, endo systems can still have truama!)

truamagenic just means your system formed from truama.

these can also be headmate descriptors, like.... a truamagenic system with an endogenic headmate and so on so forth.

-bennett

[debunkingsystemscringe]

I hate when it's like "oh ur fake if your alter is from a popular source" like mate what-

no because actually, you think i CHOSE to be a motherfucker from GENSHIN IMPACT?! no, i did not.

[debunkingsystemscringe]

We're a traumaendo plural non-system and we kind of just... avoid traumagenic spaces because that's more than enough to be considered a Cringe Faker™.

Thank you for making this blog, it makes us almost unreasonably happy.

you're welcome!

[debunkingsystemscringe]

not an ask, but a thanks. I recently found r/SystemsCringe, somehow had the idea it would be like.. systems having a giggle with other systems and making jokes about how they're 'cringe' (but not actually) for having certains headmates and etc... read it for a bit and ended up in a weird place mentally w/imposter syndrome. Since reading this blog I've been feeling way better, thanks /g /lh.

you're welcome!

[debunkingsystemscringe]

yeah I'm sorry but fakerbaiter saying they're getting harassed is gonna get a big press x to doubt from me

and if they did well...you brought that on yourself when you and your anti-endo friends did more than your share of that, invaded inclusive plural spaces to take screenshots so you can mock them and have made it your mission in life to erase us so. no sympathy from me whatsoever, but I'll play a song for you on the world's smallest violin.

im inclined to believe them.

when it comes to discourse, you're bound to meet nasty people on BOTH sides. no one deserves ro be sent death threats and shit, you know? but they're saying it represents the entire endo community, which it doesnt.

i believe them when they say they're being harassed, because you meet people like that. you're going to meet people like that. but systemcringe users harass systems all the time, and then when they get harrassed say only the endo community does it.

everyone gets harrassed on the internet. it sucks, and we all wish it didn't. but you cant just say an entire community are just harrassers.

[debunkingsystemscringe]

hi! im not a system but i got recommended one of your posts about dating between headmates

i am currently trying to character with DID and have been wondering about that specific topic... do u happen to know any places i can read up info on it?

i do have a friend who's helping me write the character but he has no experience with dating within a system so i figured i could ask here :'0

i suggest going to @writing-plurals ! its a while blog dedicated to that :).

- tech

[debunkingsystemscringe]

Not a question but as a possible endogenic system and a xenogender, you inspired me to make a Tumblr to debunk anti-xenos things

I don't know when I'll make it but I think we need more people actually standing up to exclusionists

thats amazing!

-bennie

[debunkingsystemscringe]

hi! headmate in a system with sometimes nonverbal headmates (and nonscribal headmates)

fyi - we personally use the letter emojis sometimes because 1) big letters really help understand more than little letters, (especially considering we have kid headmates, who spend some time understanding stuff)

and we also get really exhausted to the point where getting up and typing on a keyboard isnt viable, so we like to use emojis with our touchpad only to make sentences because its more comfy and it helps.

(just- letting yknow the experiences and the why)

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