#@q

[loveinstreams]

Work Song - Hozier // Edge of the city (1957) Martin Ritt

[the-paper-furler]

Nobody:

Me: trying out the way that my friend draws their eyes bc they cool

[voodoomamajujuz]

Lost Family (for any reason or addiction)

I think it is easier to express concern over behaviors that are unhealthy over challenging the belief.  

Aggression breeds aggression so yo are stuck with either expressing your feelings or taking passive action to make a point that the behavior is unacceptable like leaving or taking a break, but not angry ultimatums or destroying people’s belongings. 

I know people are VERY angry at their loved ones for doing so many hurtful things over something purposely designed to destroy them in the end.

They won't get that though.

So you can say "I am worried about you. You stopped doing the things you like. You don't do things that make you happy. We can't have fun together anymore. We can't watch TV or eat together or even enjoy our pets together. You aren't eating (or eating too much) and you are drinking (smoking/whatever) so much more. I am really worried about you and it hurts me to see you doing so poorly."

And if they throw "Q stuff" at you as a reason, you simply repeat that - "I am worried about YOU. I'm not worried about all these things online. Something you are doing right now is making you sick and separating you from the people who REALLY love you, REAL PEOPLE. And real people need to come first."

That's the rule for any kind of internet addiction and the breaking point.

"Real life comes first. The computer goes OFF when real life comes first. Family comes first. Pets come first. Paying the bills comes first. And when I am done taking care of those things maybe there is time to go online.""

[asdtcom]

[cvtlvn]

A letter I am never going to send // catharsis

I think it's unfair that I am your security net. I am never enough and yet you never forget about me in the back of your head. I am kept safe and sound like a dirty secret the other girls don't know about. I am fool proof. I am so in love with you, it drives me crazy. I've tried to move forward. I've tried so many tactics to get you out of my head. But as soon as I crawl into your arms I am home. You are comfortable and warm. It feels unnatural and wrong when I let another man touch me because he isn't you. It's not fair. It's never been fair. But I feel like I am just a bed warmer, a human place holder for the next. And my heart aches. It aches when I see you and it aches when I miss you. I am sick. I want you in my life no matter what and I put up with this shit because I'm just happy to have you. I wish you cared more, I wish you cared like I do. You've got your vices and your other girls. And I just don't know what to do. I miss you so much. I'm just your safety net. I wish this were different. I wish you could see my worth and how much I'm for you and only you.

[cvtlvn]

I get so overwhelmed You are the only man I want to touch me ever again I've tried, I've really tried to move on But when another boy touches me I recoil It's not you You're so easy My heart hurts so much

[galesofnovember]

Nobody has ever explained what diabetic nerve pain actually feels like so every time my feet are super sore I get paranoid that my nerves are dying.