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You can have your seasons upon seasons of rage... that's okay, I've been holding rage and pain for what feels like a lifetime. But I'm not the vessel to project that all onto;
I'm not the container for your blame.
You can deflect and project onto me but that doesn't change your state of being and it doesn't change external circumstances because you're not actually being honest.
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20 likes, 5 comments - joseffinspiration on July 3, 2026: "Everyone’s right, but not everyone’s honest about it.".
And the truth is it's deeper than giving them ourselves because we think they deserve it and we don't want them to feel bad about not having something... no no, it's because we would feel guilty and we would feel unworthy... if we don't give them access we think that means we aren't worthy of being chosen or that we are villains for having boundaries. no more enmeshment, we are our own sources of safey, undeniable and unlimited value.
Maybe it's worth questioning what love is without accountability; because I don't think true love can exist in it's freedom and authenticity without it.
More to come on punishment and it's function as a tool for abuse and persecution by recognizing it and dispelling confusion around it. Let's be honest about Punishment and how (I) we use it.
I am Bear, and then I felt like Nikki. No one makes me act any way; I am responsible for how I act but it was a trauma bond. I was abusive and didn't respect their autonomy from the beginning; being coercive for the outcome that I wanted. And yet I still feel scapegoated and like what I went through won't be believed (by those who don't have the maturity to see it all).
If you ever wanna know what I have to say...
Yes yes, a million times over and over; yes.
