#abhinavquestions

[b4rredteeth]

abhinav ; ♯ for a song my muse would listen to when sad

Because this song hits HARD for Abhinav. It's one of a few songs that makes them thing of the worst moments and the best moments with their wife simultaneously.

[b4rredteeth]

Abhi: 🌹

🌹 - If asked to define love what would your muse say?

Abhinav believes that love is the connection between two or more beings that can only be translated in a balanced togetherness. A feeling that accompanies so many other emotions; love isn’t simply love. It is kindness, understanding, it is worry and obsession, it is hate sometimes, and it is passion. Love is when you stop living your life just for yourself, and start considering someone else’s well being. 

[b4rredteeth]

abhi ; ⛄️, 🤸‍♀️

⛄️ - What would be your muse's ideal weather conditions? Do they prefer being hot or cold? What's their favorite season?

Abhinav has lived most of their life in warmer temperatures, especially during their childhood. So they're used to the summers being blistering hot and the winters being mild. They are very new to the cold that Alaska brings, and it still surprises them every winter. Ideally, they would have the mild winters, with very little rain, a cloudless sky, and plenty of sun without it being very warm. Their favourite season now that they're living in Alaska is Spring.

🤸‍♀️ - How active is your muse? Do they exercise regularly? Do they do things like yoga? What else do they do to keep fit and active? Are they flexible? Can they do parkour?

Abhinav has done a lot of sports growing up, staying healthy had always been a part of feeling too restless to sit still. When they married, most of their exercise was done together. He and his wife would do yoga in the mornings, some running on the weekends, and take a trip to the pool whenever they were in a city or town that had one. Abhinav also did a lot of weightlifting with their colleagues at the Circus. After their wife died, they didn't do anything for the longest time, it was together with their youngest that they left the house again to work on themselves and their health. They do yoga and go to the gym, usually with one of their three kids or with family friends. They probably can't do parkour just yet, but they are getting fit again. They're flexible enough due to their history of yoga.

[b4rredteeth]

Eyes, nose, heart (for Abhi)

Eyes: What is your favorite show to watch?

"I love watching any new shows my kids want to watch, I rarely remember the names, but there are some interesting ones that they bring to the table. My youngest once made me sit through five seasons of this show about people working at an... office that arrange I think city things, all I remember is one character is called Ron Swanson, and he's my favourite."

Nose: What is your favorite perfume/candle fragrance?

"I love wood fragrance, the smell of a big forest, it is a very calming smell."

Heart: Are you in love? If so, does the one you love know?

"I will always be in love with my ex-wife, even when she's not here anymore."

[b4rredteeth]

Cheeks(for Abhi)

Cheeks: Do you blush easily?

"I don't think it shows on my face that easily, but yes, I do blush a lot, I love that feeling of the heat in my cheeks and ears. Compliments, gifts, all that, it feels good when someone thinks of me."

[b4rredteeth]

(all) Ears

Ears: How many times have you heard something you wish you never had?

"Plenty, I'd say I've heard my parents say different variations of not wanting me for most of my childhood. And Anka has told me a few too many times that they didn't think what we had was anything... serious. I think the first one I could've done without, but the latter hurt the most." @hxneybvns

"I'm not sure I know what you mean? I don't think I've ever heard something I wished I'd never heard. Why would I want to unhear something? That seems rather impossible."

"I-- uhm, I wish Cyrek hadn't suggested my mom left me here." @nxnbinarydracvla

"There is one thing that I wish someone could pull from my skull, when they said the boys we'd been fighting were dead, that will never leave me, but just not having heard it wouldn't have changed the fact. I also wished I'd never heard the sounds of Atticus and Micah going at it." @pcisxnivys

"There's a shit fucked ton of stuff I wished I'd never heard, but you ain't getting a fucking sob story from me, grey face."

"A lot... five?"

"I wish I hadn't heard the sadness in my wife's voice when she said goodbye to me and her children. When we didn't know those would be her final words yet. But it sounded as if she knew. I wish she hadn't known."

[b4rredteeth]

Abhinav: 🎀🥰

🎀 - Do they aim to impress their partner often? If they do, how so?

When it was just Abhinav and his wife, he did everything to try and impress her. And she was never easily impressed. He would make elobrate plans - sometimes with the help of his kids - to surprise her, take her on dates that were adventurous for both of them. He in return was always being impressed by her as well, though she made it more of a personal journey, trying to create situations in which they could both grow as people, or learn more about each other and themselves. She loved hyping him up without using words, she would simply let his actions and her actions do that for her.

🥰 - Is your muse good at telling when others have feelings for them?

Yes, not when he was younger, but he has grown to become better at it. He knows life is too short to keep such things in, so he always lets others know how he feels about them - when it's positive.

[b4rredteeth]

abhinav: 💐, 💄, 💝

💐 - What small things go a long way for your muse? What small favors can someone do to get on their good side?

Abhinav is very easy to please, a kind word in the morning or a thoughtful message is all that he really needs to have some happiness. He appreciates people who do little things for others, it's what he does as well.

💄 - Is there a past relationship your muse wishes they could have changed?

Perhaps the relationship with his father. His relationship with his wife was perfect, but the one with his father was the worst one he's ever had. He's never been able to make up with the man before he passed away, but he has sometimes wondered at his father's reason for doing what he did.

💝 - What's their love language?

Words of Affirmation and Acts of Service.