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How to distinguish good from bad dad? Unfortunately, many men believe that a couple of hours walking in the park with your child on Saturdays enough to be considered a good father. Many women, too, can not decide what qualities are necessary for a man to be a good dad.
Some conclusions about whether it would be a good father to the man, you can do even before birth.
But many of the qualities strangely enough, can only occur when the child is born, and Dad gets involved in the daily care of him. Will he shift the responsibility for all the problems associated with growing children, the child's mother? Will he be given enough time to games and exercises with the baby? Will he be patient, responsible, reliable?
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So, what qualities are necessary for a man to be a good father? I will try to explain here your opinion on this issue, maybe someone will help it to assess the qualities that you personally seem to be important and necessary for paternity.
1. Love. All other qualities are not important, if not this is the first and most important - the ability to love. Many words have already been said about the unconditional motherly love and fatherly convention, but it seems to me that this is a misconception. Could be a good father of a man who does not love her child? I think no. Could it be a bad father the man who loves her child? Yes, plenty. So I love, in my view, a necessary but not sufficient condition for a good paternity. Indifferent man can not be a good father.
2. Kindness. Could be a good father spiteful, hard, constantly aggressive person? Theoretically - probably yes. Almost - I see this was not necessary. If the aggression is constantly seen in relation to other people, there is a very small chance that it will never be turned on its own. Of course, this possibility is still there, I suppose.
3. The ability to be a reliable support for the children. Pope - is the protection and reliable support, it is the person to whom the child can always go with their problems and difficulties. Perhaps, in some situations, the child may need daddy's power and authority, and the father's task - to prove itself as a reliable, strong and confident person. Unfortunately, many dads are eliminated from the order to deal with all kinds of children's difficulties, and shift all the issues on the mother.
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4. The ability to be patient, the ability to easily regain a sense of inner balance (ownership is). Many believe that this is not the masculine quality, but it seems to me that it is absolutely necessary to children, even men, and especially men. And patience - an absolutely necessary quality during the growth of the child, it will confirm almost all parents.
5. Active engagement. Unfortunately, quite often the fathers left to the mothers of all cases involving children and love them as if at a distance, by remote control. Could be a good father to remote Dad? Anyone who is not particularly interested in children and their affairs and problems? Or interests formally? Psychologists say: Once a person is actively involved in the upbringing of the child (ie povodyaschy with him at least 30% of their time) can be a good parent. The less time dad spends with their child - the less contact between them, and the less interest of the Pope to spend with your child as much as possible. For these reasons, the so-called Sunday the Pope, conducting with a baby a couple of hours on the weekend, often gradually almost completely lose interest in the child as an individual, because of the low involvement do not regard him as their cultivation "project."
6. Responsibility for the family. This is to break down than many men, and do not become adults themselves: can not stand responsible for his wife and child, "Merge", escape, struggling to shove the responsibility for her family and her problems arising on kogo-to another (wife, children, mother-in-law with, their parents, employers, government, aliens, etc.). Unfortunately, infantile men who are physically unable for anyone to be responsible, quite a lot among the modern popes. They are in the family pulled the blanket over himself, capricious, require attention, etc.
7. The ability to be strong and the ability to recognize their weakness. How often hypertrophied image of masculinity, cherished by society, prevents fatherhood! In general, the ability to recognize their own shortcomings - a very useful option for any person, without division into men and women. But fatherhood is the quality, I think, is particularly important. After Dad (along with my mother) gives a pattern of behavior for both daughters and sons for. And the ability to recognize their mistakes did not drop their adult authority in the eyes of a child (as many men), and give a positive example.
So, the quality of which seem to me the most important - love, responsibility, own maturity and involvement. That is, from my point of view, if these do not have the quality of a man, a good father, he can not be.