Do I need the boys to play dolls and girls in cars
That's how our society is that from early childhood we are trying to dictate our children - boys and girls - what toys they want to play and what not, and it is directly related to the child's gender.
Familiar to you, that the boys should play toy cars, guns, footballs ... and the girls take care of dolls, cook them food in the toy dishes, carry in a wheelchair for a walk ...
and everything would be fine, and defies logic. But when a girl breaks a water pistol, grabs a sword or rolls the machine? And when the boy is playing with dolls, rocking on hands or PUPS tea party arranges little animals? Sound the alarm? Clutching his head? During this period, from the familiar to hear that it should not be, children should be taught from an early age to clear rules and toys, typical for the "sex" of the child, otherwise it may in the future lead to a number of problems, podkabluchnichestvo, feminism, bezharakternost, cruelty, etc. Moms do not be afraid of loud talk and supposedly reliable information, and keep your nerves! Let's deal!
In early childhood, the child, whether boy or girl, exploring the world with great interest and imitate mom and dad, sister, brother, other close people, nannies, caregivers, doctors in the clinic, a shop. Of course polutoragodovalaya child wearing interesting doll in her arms, as his mother is, lull, something incoherent singing, drink its water. Consider how to construct the machine as it goes when it is pushed as crashes at speed into the corners and standing in the way of furniture. Watching, learning and imitation kid learns. The older the child becomes, the greater the social and emotional need him, more important are human relationships.
If the son is playing with dolls
To my mother understand why the boys to play with dolls, and the pope no longer panic about this, look at the positive aspects of this game:
Actively developing the imagination: as a rule, the game format - for fun that allows kids to invent a variety of situations, images, worlds;
Baby learns the relationship he begins to teach, to give, to share, take, give advice;
Improve communication skills: children are often told with puppets, tell them stories, sing songs;
Develops the emotional sphere: the baby feels and expresses the joy, happiness, anxiety, empathy;
Being explored conflict and stressful situations: kids can vent on dolls insult, berate them to throw out their anger, to punish them in the same way as it does the nurse, teacher, elder brothers and sisters, parents;
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The child learns to look "outside" of things: like a doll feels in a given situation, how to react, what is needed;
Dolls can help overcome fears: kids often take a friend with you to bed when the room is dark, so they feel more comfortable and confident; or to the clinic when they go to unpleasant treatments or vaccines;
Children learn to care and care: because of the boys grow up caring husbands and fathers.
As a child playing with a doll - a storehouse of information about the child, his state of health, anxiety, mood, relationships with other people, emotions that he experiences, desires and fears. Watching the children in the game will give you the opportunity to get to know your child! Allow boys to play with dolls and do not worry, that one can grow henpecked, it is a myth!
If the daughter rolls machine
The girl shows interest in typewriters or only their plays? Yes, to your health! This is absolutely normal. In a world of thousands of adult women take an active healthy interest in cars. After playing with cars and take an interest in other toys. The main thing is not forced to play with dolls, selecting or banning cars, it only hurt you and incur negative.
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If daughter playing with a toy gun
It is also a variant of the norm, when aggression is not directed at other people. Games with a gun permit to throw out the accumulated excess energy, strong emotions and aggression to a peaceful course.
Returning to the question - Is the boys to play with dolls and girls to roll machines - the answer is unequivocal - yes, you!
So, what toys your child plays, is not evidence of his "abnormality", and is defined by its character and temperament. All the kids are completely different and are developing their individual schedule, so it is not necessary to label them. Quiet, shy, active, mischievous example hooligan and have children, and boys and girls!
Love your children as they are, the way nature intended!
