benwinstagram is an anti........
I presume you are mentioning this because I reblogged a bunch of stuff from them. All of which had absolutely nothing to do with One Direction. If they are an anti they’re either not very vocal about it or I’ve just never caught that on my timeline.
I’ll be honest, I don’t follow people based on whether or not they believe Larry is real, I follow people based on whether or not I like their blogs. And if I’m being totally honest I’ve seen a lot of blogs on here recently that I haven’t liked very much because there’s a lot of
at the moment, which is why I just looked through all the blogs I follow since I have a handy chrome extension that tells me who’s following me back and when people were last active and basically unfollowed over 100 blogs that were either inactive or non-mutuals in the 1D fandom because I pretty much get all my 1D news from Twitter anyway and it’s been a bit of a witch hunt around here lately. I still have hundreds of 1D mutuals who I love and who will ensure that my dash is full of 1D-related content, but seeing people attack other people is a hard pass for me.
And seeing people attack Ed Sheeran, literally one of the nicest people on the planet, has me like
There’s a lot of bitterness on Tumblr but there’s also a lot of awesomeness, and I think this site is what you make of it, which is why I follow like 30% 1D mutuals, 50% dog accounts, 15% Drag Race blogs, 4% meme blogs and 1% 1D blogs that don’t follow me back. Like @zayn and @benwinstagram, who blogs about Roman-era cock rings and other hilarious things like that. Plus her icon makes me lol every time I see it. Look at this and tell me you didn’t laugh
Anyway, I love One Direction but I hate drama which seems literally ironic, but if people want to unfollow me because I follow someone they don’t like then go for it. I can’t write off everyone I have a disagreement with or else I’d have no friends.
@vocabularryonthemind is literally one of my best friends in the entire world but we fight about dumb shit all the time like puns. Like, I’m completely serious. She’ll probably even argue that puns aren’t “dumb shit”. But, yeah. I lost my shit in an argument about the DUMBEST thing ever and even to this day if she tries to tease me about it when I’m not in the mood I’m like
But I still like her more than probably any other person I’ve ever met so I’m not going to be like “THE END” when I see her reblog from someone I’m not mutuals with or when she tries to get me to admit that I was wrong. Which I probably was like 1% wrong, but whatever.
When it comes to @nautilarrie who had to witness this argument in our group chat I’m like
She’s the most unproblematic person you’ll ever meet. She gives me horoscope and tarot readings and we rode all the rides at the Wizarding World of Harry Potter like seven times rapid fire this past summer and did spells with our wands. She’s literally the most magical person ever. Also if she reblogs from someone I don’t know I usually immediately follow them because I trust her inherently with my blog choices and my life.
Hell, @mellygrant all but deactivated but she’s still ½ of my main HOETP. I love that bitch and I miss her sassy posts but we still have other things to talk about in our vida locas.
This post wouldn’t be complete without mentioning @peachesannndgravy and I only used this Nicki gif because we were literally laughing about it last night when I was hanging out at her house listening to Mind of Mine and watching the Grammy’s. If there’s one example of how you can just agree to disagree with people, it’s my friendship with Tracey. 90% of the time we don’t even talk about One Direction. When we do, there is of course a lot of mutual eye rolling because she’s as vocal in real life as she is on her blog about not liking Harry and I’m constantly shoving photos of him or artwork Chuck did of him in her face. She gave me all of her Harry merch because she knows I love him so it was kind of a positive situation for me and even though she’s like
when she sees my framed copies of his album photos that she gave me, it’s not like she refuses to be my friend because we disagree on these things. In fact, I would say that Tracey is one of the best friends I’ve ever had. I’ve been in the ER three times in the last two and a half months and she not only took me to the hospital but then took me to pick up all my prescriptions, made me food and took care of me. When my housemate told me on New Years Day that they were giving me 30 days notice to move out Tracey started looking at Craigslist before I even did, and went to every single viewing with me, offered to let me live with her if need be, and helped me not only move, but also clean and paint my new place. Anyone would be lucky to have her as their friend (and, in my case, legal council).
SO. Tumblr is what you make of it. If you don’t like the people I follow, you don’t have to follow them or me for that matter, but I am not sorry in the slightest for who I follow or who I reblog from.
And that’s all I have to say about that. Also
