Hi, I’m questioning whether or not I’m greysexual. I’ve thought I was for some time and even wear a grey ring, but the more I read the more I think perhaps I’m really not grey. I’m attracted to a handful of people. Most people that society considers sexually attractive are not so much to me. The attraction I feel to that small amount of people, however, is fairly strong most of the time, though there are days I don’t really feel all that sexual. I’m confused! Any ideas or advice? Thanks!
Hi anon!I can’t tell you what you are, but from what you describe I’d say you could definately be graysexual, but you could also be aceflux which is when you fluctuate between sexual and asexual. Its also perfectly fine to be unsure, and since it seems you are on the asexual spectrum you could also just use ace-spec if that’s more comfortable for u!You are absolutely welcome in the graysexual and ace-spec community, though, and experiencing sexual attraction at times to some people doesn’t stop that!Stay grayceful!- Mod Riah