Still my full perspective on Adrian’s sexuality is incoming (in the queue imminently!) but as much as Adrian would enjoy sex with his partner and wants to have sex with them – personal physical pleasure/release isn’t always his goal or priority. Sometimes it’s more about emotional connection or enjoyment of fulfilling them.
Adrian loves positions and acts where he can admire and maximise the pleasure of his partner. Can’t get enough of going down on his partner for long stretches (to the point he gets worked up from how much he enjoys it then gets unconsciously wriggly). Positions which allows him to see their face? Perfection to him so he can see their reactions. Just being used by his partner whether that’s them riding him or grinding against him while he focuses on them. On a slight inverse he hates the idea his partner ever feels like he’s ‘using’ their body/them for their body or that their relationship is at all sexually transactional.
Sex with his partner is emotionally validating. He’s the most satisfied when he can see and tell his partner is enjoying themselves. He internally equates their pleasure with his purpose which creates fulfilment for him. This makes his partner feel really special and treasured but they can worry he’s neglecting his own needs because he’s too focused on them. His goal is less so orgasm so he may sometimes end sex sweaty, entangled and not having finished but still feels satisfied and satiated (and so very proud of himself if he thinks he’s done a good job). This can frustrate his partner sometimes because they also want him to finish, and worry he isn't enjoying himself enough, but they get all soft seeing his big puppy eyes when he doesn’t understand their concern and seems so content.
Aftercare is almost his favourite part sometimes. Getting up and pottering around. Bringing his partner a drink and getting them cleaned up. Stealing their clothes which are strewn across the room to clean/launder (if his partner falls asleep of course they’ll find their clothes freshly washed and folded next to them on their bedside table). This man loves pillow talk!! Yes he will finish sex and ask you to quiz him on animal facts (spiders and owls included of course!).