Admin Autumn Confesstion Time:
As I have gotten older, which many of you may feel the same, I have gotten less and less able to deal with some people's nonsense. I also get tired of people that drop you when something or someone else comes along. A friend that gives you no time whatsoever. I feel myself that I get tired of people that aren't genuine. If something happens in a friendship, the people in said friendship should work things out. Not run away from a problem and let it get worse until both sides are frustrated. I have had people in my life that choose to push things under a rug rather than talk it out. Granted, confrontation is hard and it is something that no one likes, but it is something that does come up. The biggest question is how are you going to handle it? Because even in a friendship, if you can't handle it then, then what will become of other relationships? If you cannot handle confrontation and knowing you are wrong, what will happen to a deep relationship such as a romantic one like a girlfriend or boyfriend or marriage mates? Nothing good comes from running. And if it a relationship you truly value, you shouldn't be afraid or combative. If it means something and the person(s) mean anything to you, you should face them. Or else I have found that things are harder. Because the more you run away, the more you alienate yourself and become very lonely. In being older I find that when a person like this enters my life and then turns out like this, that the weight when they leave is actually refreshing. I miss them and the things they helped me with, the good times we shared. But the breath of fresh air and the weight off, my mental well being and just the relief I feel. When that happens, that's kind of when I know a problem took care of itself. And again, not having that extra weight and burden, makes life quite a lot easier 🥰
Just something I noticed. Sorry for rambling!
Thanks for letting me confess. I hope everyone is having a good day/night!
-Best All💕