#admin: lydia

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YASSS WELCOME BACK

Holt Guacamoly this was fast!It’s nice to know that people still care ;w;

Admin Lydia

[supernaturalimagine]

Hey do you think maybe you could do a few imagines directed at the boy and // or Spn viewers ? They're all v girl and // or female oriented and not all the fans are girl and // or female .

Hi hun!!

I completely understand where you’re coming from, however we don’t actually write the imagines or oneshots, they are submitted to us and we just format and post them, it all hinges on the people submit to the blog.

So here’s my advice to you; submit some male-orientated imagines! It’s really that simple, we can’t make it if we don’t receive it.

If you’d like to check out the male-orientated imagines and oneshots on this blog we have a gender: male tag and a gender: neutral tag so I’d recommend checking those out!

-Lydia

[supernaturalimagine]

This has probably been asked before, but how would one get their name added to the writer list? I know I haven't written anything for you guys before but I want to, I guess I'm just nervous no one would like my stuff. ~Tris

Hi there! 

This is all stated on our request a one-shot page, however just to make things clear, all you need to do is:

Create an author’s page as per the instructions on this page 

Send us a message! 

I assume either Lana or Ray will handle it from there as I’m still a little unfamiliar with the whole process, but if you have any other questions please feel free to send in another ask!

- Lydia

[supernaturalimagine]

Am I allowed to just like pick an imagine and write a one shot for it...? Or do I have to be on an author list? Sorry if you've answered this already. Thank you!

Hiya sweetie!

It is absolutely okay to write a one-shot for any of the imagines on this page; the author list is simply for those who don’t mind being contacted by our followers to write one-shots based on the imagines. 

Hope that helps!

- Lydia

[never-to-be-homeless]

1/? Its Myra from maybe 4 months ago. in the past ive talked to Dean. this month has been quite awful at times, all at the hands of a certain religious friend i mentioned the last time. he had the audacity to text me(not even say it to my face) "I dont want to be friends with you if youre going to be a bitch." so thank you, super religous friend who has never said a profanity in his life. he sure does know how to make a person feel special! ive been giving him death glares whenevr i see him, and

today i get this email. immediatly i feel sick to my stomach because all he knows how to do is write these innocent pure passive agressive emails about “forgiveness” and shit. the first line fucking says “This is mainly for me so you don’t have to read thisThat being said if you do don’t respond” so i dont know what hes hoping to achieve by sending it. then he goes on to say how we were probably never friends(wrong), and how hes tried to help me(with god), and i keep beingoverdramatic(fuckin THANKS BRO, my worst fear). next, he goes on to ramble about an event that happened because he outed me to my ex girlfriend boyfriend(who happens to be a misgendering douchenozzle). he doesnt even have his facts straight on this issue. he ends with “The point is, I don’t think we were ever friends” and forgiveness and all that fun stuff. forgiveness for what???? i also have still not recieved an apology for anything he has done to me. i admit to being a bitch to himbecause he treated me like shit in the most fakey-fake nice way possible, but he cant seem to realize that when you are also part of the problem, apologies come from both sides. i have no idea if i should reply to this email or not. anyways school starts soon which means i have to see him and put up with him when all i want to do is kick him in the face. i really dont know how to handle this. i dont know if i want to be nice about it either.

Hey Myra, it’s Dean.

Long time no speak, huh? Sorry to hear you’re having such a hard time with this guy. It sounds like you’re well shot of him, to be honest. 

It’s truly up to you if you want to respond to the email-- you aren’t held to his demands, okay? If you feel as if replying would help you, you should do so. Think about what you want to say, write it down and be careful of your phrasing. It’s important to avoid mimicking his tone or coming across aggressively. Be sensible about your reply, and make sure that you get all of your points across. You don’t have to be nice, but I’d make sure to be civil. Don’t stoop to his level. 

If you don’t feel like replying is your bag, you could always confront him face to face. Point out that you used to have a good relationship (however long ago that was), and make it clear that you want to resolve the issue so you can move on. It’s important to say your piece sometimes, and not be levelled by some guy making his opinion known. There are two sides to every story and it’s totally okay for you to speak yours. Maybe talk to your other friends about the issue and see what they think. 

Let me know how you choose to handle it. Good luck, 

Dean. 

[never-to-be-homeless]

Hi Dean, it's Sheena. One of my friends called me yesterday evening. We hadn't talked on the phone in nearly a year (we text and pm on facebook mostly). I should've known it was something serious when he called. He told me he's HIV positive, that he found out months ago. I don't know how to be what he needs. I don't know where to start researching, I don't have anyone to personally ask (I have 2 cousins who are positive-- one is in prison, the other is a drug addict). He hasn't said it, (1/2 *s)

but I know he has to be afraid. He has called me six times sense, just talking about everything and nothing. He’s brought up old times, but he also said something about packing up and moving somewhere totally different to “start over.” He’s always been the one who said he never wanted to leave the state. I think he’s trying to run from something he can’t run from. I don’t know how to help.

Hey Sheena, Dean here. 

I’m sorry to hear that your friend dropped such bad news on you. That’s gotta be rough. I admire the fact that you wanna help him-- that’s really good of you, and proves what a good person you are. 

First of all, I’d make sure your friend knows you’re really there for him. Let him know that you love him no matter what’s happening, and that you’ll be by his side through whatever he’s going through. Second, I’d tell you to educate yourself. Read up on HIV (from reputable sources) and understand the virus and the impact that it will have on his life. Make sure he’s getting the right treatment and that he’s seeing a physician regularly. Encourage him to talk about how he’s feeling, and let him know that he should tell the people closest to him. It’s important for him to have a support network around him. 

Remember that whilst HIV is serious, it doesn’t mean his life is over. People with HIV can live a happy and healthy life, as long as they look after themselves medically. He needs to make sure that he’s managing the virus-- that is the most important thing right now. 

It sounds like he’s dealing with a lot, and will need your support to get through the next period of his life. I would also suggest that he speak to a professional too. 

Good luck. Sending my strength to you. Dean. 

[never-to-be-homeless]

Hey i'm not looking for chat really or anything like that just I wanted to show appreciation for what all of you guys are doing here helping people and giving advise in these personas , Thank you for being awesome and keep it up ~Hunter

Hey Hunter. 

Thanks so much for your kind words. The Admins of this blog really appreciate it. Everyone really tries their best to help out, and it’s a really important cause to be a part of. 

~~Admins

[never-to-be-homeless]

(part 1) Hey guys, I'm Eva. I usually talk to Castiel, but this time around it's kind of urgent so I need a quick response from anybody who's available with a good solution. Long story short, my parents are in town (causing me ridiculous amounts of stress and anxiety with every step) and staying with my boyfriend and I. They neglected to mention that they were bringing my younger siblings as well (so I've had those two to watch over too since my parents see me as assumed babysitting). For a...

grand total of six people in our small two bed-room house. Too many people and not enough space for my introverted self, and now tensions are high. My parents decided to clean my house yesterday (because all of the dust and cat dander is apparently making my mom ill from allergies, I feel bad but it’s nothing I can really fix) and during said cleaning spree my very high-strung cat scratched my brother. So they chased her up the stairs with the fucking vacuum cleaner, pardon my French. Naturally my cat is now terrified of them, and is acting out by hissing and swatting at them if she feels they come too close (even if they’re just walking past the table she’s under). They don’t seem to understand my boyfriend and I’s explanations as to why that was a TERRIBLE idea (despite having cats for years themselves, and I distinctly remember my mother having a high-strung cat when I was younger and if I pissed him off it was my fault for being stupid).To add onto it, my parents have now decided that they’re going to leave a day early (I was going to go up with them and visit everybody back in my hometown) despite dinner plans being made with multiple people, I have to clean, do laundry, pack, etc. while giving me about five hours notice. I won’t even have the time to tell my boyfriend goodbye properly since he won’t be home from work until after their ETD. I voiced how upset I was and they bitched at me and then left the kids. I promised all of my friends I was coming up to visit them. In conclusion; I’m stressed out, anxiety ridden, feeling guilty about something that’s not even my fault but I can’t rationalize it to myself, sleep deprived from being so stressed out and anxiety ridden on my lumpy couch, and unsure as to how I should proceed. Any ideas? Thank you for listening, if nothing else. Yours, Eva.

Hey Eva, it’s Dean. 

I’m sorry you’ve going through the ringer like this. Family visits are meant to be enjoyable, not a friggin’ pain in the ass. It sucks pretty damn hard that you’re having to deal with it all. 

It sounds like your parents aren’t really interested in listening to your point of view. Honestly, talking to them is all you can really do in this situation. Maybe it’s best to tell them how it made you feel after it’s all done with-- that way, the situation has passed, and it won’t feel as upsetting and stressful for you. Hindsight might also give them the opportunity to recognise how difficult they were and the kind of pressure they put on you. You could always ask your boyfriend to speak to them as he’s an outsider of sorts, and they might listen to his opinion. After all, he’s not technically family, and as you are family they might consider their behaviour perfectly normal.

The other thing you could do is travel back to your hometown by yourself. Tell them that it’s too short notice for you to leave a day early, and insist that you travel back on your own. That way they might realise how important it is to you to have that extra day, and they may give in. 

I mean, the best thing to do is just know that it’ll soon be over. Soon they’ll go home, and you’ll have your house back. Then, maybe keep the parental visits to a minimum of only holidays, eh? 

Sorry I couldn’t be of more help, Dean.