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1. describe your idea of a perfect date
If it’s a first date I would prefer something somewhat low-key where we just talk and get to know each other and end the night w a lil kiss lmao
2. whats your “type”
Honestly I feel like I don’t necessarily have a type, like I mostly decide if I find someone attractive on an individual basis. But I do tend to fall for the douchey/fratboy type of guy lmfao
3. do you want kids?
Probably in the future, but I don’t think I would feel “incomplete” if I never ended up having any
4. if you do, will you adopt or use some other form of child birth?
I’m 100% open to adoption, but I think I would prefer surrogacy bc I want them to have my DNA lmao, but it’s not a necessity
5. describe the cutest date you’ve ever been on
Can’t relate
6. describe your experience having sex for the first time (were you nervous? or was it easy peasy?)
If giving head counts has sex, it was a drunk hookup so most of my typical nerves were calmed down haha
7. are you a morning time gay or night time gay?
Night time, I’m not even awake before 11 half the time
8. opinion on nap dates?
Again can’t relate but it sounds lit
9. opinion on brown eyes?
They’re nice! I don’t really care about the color of someone’s eyes tbh
10. dog gay or cat gay?
Dogs 100%
11. would you ever date someone who owned rodents or reptiles?
I can fuck w like hamsters, gerbils, and like a lizard or bearded dragon, I think something like a snake or mice would freak me out a little bit but depending on the person I could look past that
12. whats a turn off you look for before you start officially dating someone
How they treat other people, whether they say please/thank you, basically just if they have basic manners
13. what is a misconception you had about lgb people before you realized you were one?
I mean the only one I can think of is that when I was younger (like not even in my teens) I thought lgb people would all be feminine men and masculine women which obv isn’t true
14. what is a piece of advice you would give to your younger self
Nothing bad will happen if you decide to come out earlier, but it’s fine to take your time and wait until you’re actually ready to do so
15. (if attracted to more than one gender) do you have different “types” for different genders?
N/A
16. who is an ex you regret?
Still can’t relate
17. night club gay or cafe gay?
Both but leaning a little more towards night club
18. who is one person you would “go straight” for
Honestly, I don’t think there’s ever been someone that made me wish I were straight lmfao
19. video game gay, book gay, or movie gay?
I guess video game but only in the sense that I play pokemon and sometimes nintendogs lmfao
20. favourite gay ship (canon or not)
Is there a ship between Zayn and Liam? If so, that
21. favourite gay youtuber
I don’t rlly watch youtubers
22. have you ever unknowingly asked out a straight person?
I have never asked out another person in my entire life
23. have you ever been in love?
I’ve had really intense crushes if that counts, but afaik I’ve never been mutually in love with someone :-)
24. have you ever been heartbroken?
Every waking moment of my life / especially when my crushes ignore me
25. how do you determine if you want to be them or be with someone
Sometimes it’s hard to tell, but normally if I find myself constantly jealous of someones appearance, I want to be them. If I find myself feeling butterflies in my stomach and being really flustered around someone and get really happy whenever I get to talk to them, I wanna be with them lmao
26. favourite lgb musician/band
Either Kesha or Lady Gaga
27. what is a piece of advice you have for young / baby gays
Kinda similar to 14, give yourself time to figure everything out. Don’t force anything. Over time everything will figure itself out. Eventually, you’ll be confident in your identity. A few years ago, I could barely say the word gay out loud, now I never shut up about how many guys im in love with at a time lmfao
28. are you out? if so how did you come out
Mostly, yes. To my closest friends, I was only able to say it after a few drinks. Now I have the confidence to say it sober! I told my mom in december, and am still yet to tell everyone else in my family. Not out of fear or anything, I just haven’t found the right moment to bring it up
29. what is the most uncomfortable / strange coming out experience you have
Umm I guess my freshman year of college, this girl who I was barely friends with at the time asked me out of nowhere if I liked boys or girls, and I was in an in-between stage where like I didn’t think I was ready to tell people, but I also didn’t wanna continue living a lie so it just caught me super off guard haha
30. what is a piece of advice for people who may not be in a safe place to express their sexuality
This is a hard one because I really can’t relate to this. I would say definitely take advantage of what the internet has to offer. There’s so many gay-friendly spaces on the internet that also offer anonymity, and if it’s really that bad irl, you can use incognito mode so it won’t save browser history!
