I can understand the 4B movement radfems in South Korea propose. Honestly, with the current system regarding patriarchy, with heterosexual marriage, women are subordinate to men when they marry them. They're also forced to adopt men's family surnames after marriage which shows male dominance. I don't think anyone likes to be seen as inferior in a relationship so I support the 4b movement South Korean radfems created when South Korea will make patriarchy more severe in the country. I think such movement will force the government to treat women with more respect and give women more rights. However, the ideal situation is to destroy patriarchy all together. Honestly, even when I can be attracted to men, I don't want to legally marry to a man since I would be forced to adopt his family surnames and will be treated as a subordinate in his family, even if my husband doesn't treat me like a subordinate his family members would expect my husband to treat me like a subordinate. This isn't true love to me. My fantasies of being true love with men are usually just living together and not be in touch with each other's families who will force me to be a subordinate to my husband. However, it is hard for such a thing to happen irl














