14 Ways To Love Him
-Edit version of 14 Ways To Get Her To Fall For You
Be patient with him. While he may struggle with his words, he will show you through his actions.
Don’t be greedy for his time and attention. Let him feel that you won’t consume his space. As your lover…he doesn’t need to always prove himself to you. Just believe in him.
Be there for him. Every time. When he needs someone to listen to his fears even if it’s 4 in the morning, stay with him. Be the one that knows all of his stories and secrets. Don’t leave him until he falls asleep. Know that even the strongest of beings have nightmares, and recall the moments when he fought your fears. It’s really okay… to be his knight in shining armor, everyone needs saving from time to time.
Listen to him when he talks about his friends, hobbies, and games. Just be there for him and don’t interrupt him, even if… he is only using them as an excuse to cover up what is truly on his mind. Look at him through his eyes. Feel his pain. Feel his presence. Understand the fact…that he just doesn’t want to worry you. He’s badly hurt. So don’t comfort him with promises. Unless you really mean them.
When he says everything’s going to be alright, he means it, but he still doubts. So..encourage him. Tell him that you will stand by his side no matter what, and will give him all the support he needs. Tell him…that this doesn’t make him weak.
Be the light that will guide him and bring him back to his path…but remember to never change him.
Accept his weird taste. Accept the fact that you two will not agree on everything and that’s okay.
Focus on his details. His actions tell the truth. If he texts you, “I’m okay. Don’t worry,” Don’t believe him…go to him and wrap your arms around him. Give him….your love and warmth, wait quietly for him until he feels ready to tell you.
Remember that some things are better left unsaid. If he doesn’t like talking about his past, respect him. Understand that everyone has something that they don’t want to remember. The past…doesn’t matter, so focus on the present and future together.
If he tells you that he loves the way you treat him, appreciates it, because it’s real and write a note so you can do it again for him. Treat him like a king…he deserves it.
Adore him from his flaws to his strength.
He will always be your hero, but…while he is your shield, it’s okay for you to be his sword.
Don’t lose the chance but don’t take advantage of him.
Loving him will always be your best mistake. So get ready for the consequences you will experience throughout the journey with him. As a human being…of course, he isn’t perfect, and at times his words may sound harsh. Then remember… all those moments when he had to deal with your stubbornness…your mistakes and flaws.
A simple ‘sorry’ doesn’t always mean defeat. It just means…you love them enough…that you don’t want to lose them.
