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amber’s family

this probably is not true but i think that morgan is possibly amber’s little sister????? like she looks just like her and shes also a lil shady just like amber

BUT in the promo for the next episode it showed somebody suing bex which is probably amber’s mom bc bex like took off amber’s whole eyebrow and since miranda is morgan’s mom they can’t both be her mom (i mean technically they could both be her mom but i dont think that would happen)

so like i just dont know man

#amber mack #is that the tag we're using?#amber from andi mack #haha that sounds like jake from state farm #k im done now

buffy: hey andi, your girlfriend just walked in

andi: for the last time, amber isn’t my girlfriend

buffy: i never said it was amber

andi: oops

#ambi #andi mack #amber brown #amber mack #disney channel #lgbt #wlw #glg #lesbian #bisexual #queer #pansexual

andi: wow amber you look great

amber: well i didn’t spend all that time in the closet for nothing

#ambi #amber mack #andi mack #disney channel #lgbt #bisexual #queer #lesbian #wlw #glg #amber brown #let ambi be girlfriends

This Isn’t Okay

I know this is in the past... but can it be forgotten? No. It shouldn’t. And for as long as Amber is still being held responsible for messing up Jonah then we better hold that boy accountable for his actions too.

Yeah, Jonah has been through a lot. He already had a panic attack over Andi rejecting him. He was in a toxic relationship with Amber that has seriously affected him. But can we all agree that one thing he did was very messed up:

This

Was

Not

Okay

And we shouldn’t let it slide.

Yes, Amber should apologize to Jonah for what she did to him. She needs to understand what she did was wrong. Trapping someone in a relationship regardless of how much you may need them isn’t okay. But Jonah, whether he meant to or not, completely lead Andi on and that isn’t okay either. Acting as a couple with someone who you know really likes you, holding their hand like you’re dating, only to tell them you really don’t like labels and your relationship isn’t anything serious beyond being just friends is messed up.

I believe in the beginning Jonah really did like Andi, so maybe he fell out of like with her later on. Okay, that’s fine, it happens. But let her know! Update the person (who you told directly that you really like them who you are also aware really likes you) that though you did like-like them now you’re feeling like being friends may be for the better. Communicate!! It’s totally normal and a-okay to like someone and then not anymore — but👏🏼 you👏🏼 keep👏🏼 that👏🏼 person👏🏼 in👏🏼 the👏🏼 loop👏🏼. Especially when you’ve said to their face that you like-like them.

And don’t even get me started on the fact that he made it seem as if this was common knowledge, that she should’ve known this. Oh heck no boi —

She actually thought her not knowing they weren’t an actual a couple was her fault. Like NO. It was his for not telling you that! One could argue that we — the audience — couldn’t tell they were a couple, even Marty called out how they didn’t seem like one, but imagine this from her perspective:

A guy tells you he likes you, and that he broke things off with his horrible gf. You give him back the bracelet you made him. You both are very happy. You invite him to a very special family dinner, it doesn’t go swimmingly well due to a misunderstanding but ends on a good note. Everyone’s having a great time. You go on a sort of double date with him, that doesn’t end well but eventually you two end up talking again, walk away happy together. Then you’re holding hands. There is never a time during all of this that he turns to you and says, “maybe we’re better as friends” or “I don’t think I want to be in another relationship right now.” Nope, no reason to believe he doesn’t want to date you. No reason to believe you aren’t actually dating. But then he breaks it to you that your whole relationship was only in your head and he had never stated you two were dating. You blame yourself now. No one tells you it’s not your fault.

That sucks. Hands down, the worst experience ever for a first relationship or in Jonah’s terms — “relationship”. My heart still breaks for Andi in the scene where she’s talking with Bex about all of this. She’s so sad and is blaming herself. Not even Bex tells her it’s not her fault. The only person who did?

Say what you want about Amber but she was the only person to tell Andi it’s not her, it’s Jonah. She had every reason to hold it against Andi, too, since she apparently “stole” Jonah? But no, she doesn’t even mention that — which is why I don’t believe it was ever about Jonah and Amber definitely doesn’t blame Andi for him leaving her. I don’t agree with Amber when she regards herself as the victim in her and Jonah’s break up because even though I don’t believe Jonah liked her that way, the boy was messed up because of that relationship. But Amber’s words to Andi are still sound and true and considerate and greatly appreciated.

I just felt the need to talk about this again because it bothers me how some characters are being held responsible for every bad deed they’ve ever done while other characters are getting almost a free pass because they’ve shown they’re human. Well Amber has shown humanity too. Jonah has done some bad also. Let’s not forget.

This shouldn’t be preached: that if you’re lead on by anyone, it’s somehow your fault for thinking what you had was serious? No. You were played. That’s wrong and it sucks but it happens. It’s also not your fault.