Jan 20
need an opinion folks
#am i overreacting?#was talking to a guy (guy 1) back in sept who just ghosted out of nowhere — started dating somebody else (guy 2) who didn’t work out for me#guy 1 texts me in dec to say it was all a misunderstanding and he‘d like to get to know me again.. at that time i am casually talking to#both him and the other one n both know of the other — i tell guy 1 that obv i dated other ppl bc i wouldn’t wait for someone who ghosted me#a bit after that guy 2 and i stop talking but guy 1 keeps going on about how he was always the 2nd choice (selling it as a joke)#but he also does not put any effort into us and yday i tell him that i feel like it’s very onesided#and he says he’s just sooo busy and can’t talk.. ok sure. so i suggest we leave it be if he’s too busy to date bc id want a bit of effort#and commitment#and he says ‘and what will you do then? back to the other guy or what?‘ promising he didn’t say it to offend me#like im desperate and need dick if i can’t have his#so i tell him that’s a dick move tf. get the response ‘just recently i was the 2nd choice so im allowed to ask‘#my dude YOU dipped? did you expect me to fucking stop existing and wait for you?? i even told him i‘d choose him bc in general we go#together better … and i say dude you were my first choice before YOU dipped#and lmfao asshole says that ‘id rather dip into someone tho‘ as if a dirty joke‘s appropriate rn????#i will delete this bc i feel bad venting here but yall am i overreacting i rlly dont fucking know anymore with men#i just despise them lmao#tdl
