Hey i saw your anal ask.. im a girl but i dont want to message because im embarrassed so do you ever get insecure about things during sex or just in general? Is it normal because my bf wants to try anal but im too insecure for him to see my discoloration and i always somehow avoid doggy
Hey first of all, insecurities about absolutely anything, no matter what gender you are, are completely normal!! AND SO IS DISCOLOURATION!! <3
Secondly, never do anything that you feel uncomfortable doing. If your bf is understanding enough he’ll be respectful of your boundaries, if he doesn’t respect them, he’s not a very nice person. That being said, im sure he honestly will not care at all about your discolouration and he’ll love your insecurities! If you really do wanna try anal but you’re insecure about him seeing, you could always try with the covers over you.. or maybe try different positions? :) but if you’re too insecure please never force yourself to do things for the pleasure of others!!
I suffer from BDD, so theres ever really a time that i don’t feel insecure, especially during sex when i’m in such a intimate situation and I know that they’re going to have to see parts of my body that I absolutely despise. Being with someone who understands your insecurities and makes it clear that they love them makes it 1000x better, even if you don’t like the insecurities yourself! Also you’re always welcome to message me!!!! <333