get a comment on a very old post of mine about jinu. the comment is a hate comment informing me that actually he did gaslight rumi, because he told her "I'm the only one who can understand you" (real quick, for the class: that line is definitely manipulative and aiming to isolate her, something I've never denied and have actively talked about, but that doesn't make it gaslighting. gaslighting isn't just "any manipulation"). so I go check out their blog. what do I see in the bio? "you can stay, just don't be mean to each other".
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