Jon Snow is a man who believes he treasoned his Watch vows laying with a woman ( i find his and Ygritte relationship not particularly consensual)
Jon Snow is a man who treasoned his Watch's vows to save a woman he loves (brotherly love por romantic foreshadow) from marriage to an abusive husband.
Jon Snow is a man who saved a woman from a marriage she did not want.
Rhaegar did not abandoned his wife and children. They were well cared for in a castle with dozens of servants. Not his future kingdom either. He died for what he considered good for the kingdom and the woman he loved.
Jon Snow died while he did what he considered to be good and the woman he loved.
Jon Snow loves fuckin' Targaryen tragedy heroes all the way up.
Jon Snow is so Rhaegar he can't even imagine. And he would love the idea to be a DESIRED kid. Because that's kind of his trauma, you know.
