Some times "shut up and let me love you" is the answer. Some times "let it all out, I'll listen all night" is the answer. You don't know love till your both crying on the phone and you say you will move across the world and change your life to help them calm down...and know in your heart you really mean it. After a year together I learned 3 things 1- love isn't pretty sometimes, but it's honest and pure 2- you never know what to say, but speak from the heart and things will be okay. 3- if they mean the world to you, drop the world for them. I hope everyone out there finds love. I don't care what race, gender, or place in life you are. Find you someone who makes you genuinely happy and hold on to them like they are part of you.