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brunch with the in-laws <3 (part 1: here)

#PACK A BAG WE'RE COMING TO GET YOU #THE FACT THAT I HAD AN OPPORTUNITY TO PLAY WITH MY QUARTERBACK FROM COLLEGE IT WAS A DREAM COME TRUE #GONNA COME DOWN TO US LIKE ALWAYS #WE'RE REALLY GONNA BE WITH Y'ALL FOR A WHILE #haha wow i'm so normal about all of this #ALSOOOOOOOOO that moment of joe saying “you can't tell me i don't throw him the ball enough” JEHDJSHDJABDS #like CLEARLYYYY this is a conversation they're having on the regular #joe getting teased by ja'marr's dad for not giving him the ball enough and feeling comfortable around him to tease him right back HEUFHABDJ #ANOTHER THING:#there is something incredibly domestic about those first few seconds #in which joe kinda like #listens in on what ja'marr is saying and then correcting him on the year #(he must have said the wrong one initially? or been confused on the exact date?)#idkkkkkk but there is a lot of affection in listening to someone jumping in with a quick correction/additional little detail #and then sitting back and letting them finish their story #i had so much more to say about this but then tumblr's upload function made my life a living hell for a solid 5 hours #so here we are #love that they had gay brunch with their parents though that's so insanely cute #do we think they do this on the regularor was it something set up by/for netflix #joe burrow #ja'marr chase #joe'marr

I desperately want to see this look sans glasses. His bangs are so cute and ruffleable and would literally frame his eyes so well. Just look! Imagine!

The black velvet suit. The turtleneck. And his hair is such a nice color in this era, the red lights catch on it so nicely. People hate on this look but if I were Aziraphale it would be glasses off, peppering that forehead with kisses immediately.

#another thing:#it’s cute that his outfit is made all out of such soft materials.#those glasses are the only part of the ensemble that’s rigid and pokey and i want them GONE #i think i’m getting more ill about #good omens #the longer i spend in this purgatory.#Crowley #i love you

Joe better not hurt my boy

I agree with your tags! It really is like that because of what nasty dynamics can be portrayed and people just don't want to read that (understandably) soooo unless you "pick a side" your fic probably won't do as well either :/

That’s definitely true! It’s very weird, because I don’t write smut, but even if I did, just based on principal... I wouldn’t tag who bottoms. I wouldn’t want to reduce my work to just that and I don’t see why I should go “hunting” for fics that serve me and my headcanons in that sense. (Even though I’m in the “they kind of share that, really” camp so maybe that’s why this is just even more confusing to me.)

If that’s a preference... fine. Tag it, ask the author, make rec lists based on that. I just don’t agree with the heteronormative stereotypes that these fics portray. They often don’t sit right with me.

If the author can pull from the characters as I know them and make them believable omegas or alphas (which seems to be where the hight of this discourse sits, no matter if it actually transpires in an omegaverse setting or not), I’ll be fine. But it’s never “soft top” Harry or “headstrong bottom” Louis in that case, is it? It’s always “big strong top takes what he wants” and “small delicate bottom flutters his eyelashes”.

I just don’t have time for hyper-masculine characterizations of Harry, who clearly is striving to blur the lines with his gender representation. And making Louis the “smol bean” self insert goes over my head. If you want to read or write self-insert fic then do it! Nobody’s stopping you! But don’t fucking start bullying people over it.