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[blairhappiness-blog]

just wanted to say good luck with your kitty, i hope he feels better asap! dont worry too much just yet, hopefully he is better by tomorrow, if you see that its getting worse or not better i def recommend the vet, but for now stay positive. you sound like a great kitty owner, he is lucky to have you <3

i hope so bb

he is a stray and i adopted him November 2nd last year and he was just a small kitten. And i do everything for this cat. he breaks my stuff all the time and not too long ago he sliced two of my fingers when i tried to pet him. he is very moody but i love him. it's not his fault, he's just a cat. I just hope that as he gets older he starts to mellow out a little bit. Like him getting into fights and when he ran away, which is many times is a headache for me. i give him everything to be happy.

that's my Dumbie when both his ears were perfect.

[blairhappiness-blog]

I'm really tired of seeing you harassing Anne like this! STOP IT STUPID PEOPLE. Can't you torture anyone else? It's just getting ridiculous. I mean, can't you read? Do you need an entire essay being written over and over again? Don't you get the point? It's not the Dair zone and Anne ships CHAIR. So as rational as she can be, she won't agree with you, okay? Because everything that you're writing(also hiding like cowards) is irrelevant and pointless! So get out of here. NOW!

LANA HAS SPOKEN OKAY

[blairhappiness-blog]

Welp, just read the 608 episode description. Good luck with your anon asks on that one, lol.

well i didn't read it yet and i'm not going to fret.

anons don't scare me.

and why are you instigating

my otp is married at the end of the day

[blairhappiness-blog]

"""It's just pathetic When she keeps throwing herself at the same man who seems fairly nonchalant and uninterested and keeps repeatedly turning her down.""" SERIOUSLY?!! These people are clearly blind. Did they not see the look on his face when he said it had to wait a bit? It hurts him that he can't give in, that he can't give her what she wants, and I'm sure he's dying to be with her too, but he has to stick to his word.

I know right? my poor bb. he must have it so bad. He is a 21 year old male. I mean does anon understand what that implies. And plus this is the girl of his dream. 

This is the girl he told in 5x14 "I would do anything for you. I just want to be with you".

This is the girl he would give up everything for. And his father makes  fun of him for his softness because he values Blair above anything else. At this point Chuck just shrugs it off just like he shrugged off the comment about Monkey. He knows what he has with Blair and it's his happiness. No one could touch, not even Bart, not anymore.

ofc he doesn't want her.

everything he's bee doing so far is just for shits and giggles

[blairhappiness-blog]

(diff. anon) um CB havent had sex for a year, and when they do they can't stop for 2 days, hell if I was Blair I'd "throw" myself at him too. ;P

and i'm sure Chuck wants to throw himself right back.

But can't risk her running another fever because of him. Plus there was word of dehydration and the likes.

what anon doesn't understand is that their sexual life is pretty intense and after a long dry spell like that they will be going at it  for days like it's the last time they'll ever see each other. And they can't take that much time off to enjoy each other because their time is already pre-committed to their careers.

When they finally do achieve their goals and give in, they will probably have to take a whole week/ two weeks off and fall off the face of the earth. There's a lot of reconnecting to be done. Two days in Monte Carlo doesn't cut it for Chuck and Blair libido. y' know

[blairhappiness-blog]

To clarify, there is NOTHING pathetic about a woman wanting sex. It's just pathetic When she keeps throwing herself at the same man who seems fairly nonchalant and uninterested and keeps repeatedly turning her down.

I'm just letting you know rn, if you keep sending me anymore asks about this, i will just ignore them. It's pointless.

Obviously Chuck does not want Blair, so it is the perfect reason for him to give her his ring which is a promise of a life together. He wants to spend the  entire rest of his life with a woman he does not want.

blows my mind.

anyway. i'm not going to expand on this much. Believe what you will but canon is canon and even if Chuck never expressed his desire for Blair verbally. it would still be fucking obvious that he does want her. It's in his touches. They aren't suggestive because he has to control himself but they are sensual. He looks at her a certain way. he is in love with her and he wants her and her, him.

6x01 -- I need to walk it off  ( after he and Blair had the discussion in the limo)

6x02 -- No sexual advances were made

6x03 -- I would love to spend the whole day in bed with you but i know an IV can be quite the hindrance (when he visited Blair at the atelier and asked to be her minion)

6x04 -- hold that visual (When Blair described the scene of the in the bathtub)

He's never rejected her. He's always told her how much he desired her and then he reminds them of the necessity to keep the pact because they actually want their relationship to succeed and not having sex helps their focus off of each other.

If Chuck was all hot on Blair's tail, you would be calling him a filthy animal. And now that he's trying to behave himself and focusing their attention elsewhere now he's rejecting her. he'll never do right by you.

And Blair can't even desire her own boyfriend/fiancé in private without coming off looking like a disgraceful  PATHETIC woman. Did you like her much better when she was running around having sex in public while she was still married and jeopardizing her family's entire fortune very irresponsibly very close to the passing of her child which she did not mourn? Is that the ideal Blair for you.

The only time Blair made any insistence on her and Chuck having sex was 6x03. She hadn't done so in 6x01 or 6x02 or 6x04. She only described a potential scenario involving them enjoying each other. She did not insist he come over and have sex with her and he did not reject her.

this is my final word on the subject.

[blairhappiness-blog]

I hope in the flash-forward we'll get to see this painting of Blair hehe, I loved them this episode: funny, witty, just too damn cute and adorable for their own good. Sigh. How did you like it (ignoring the stupid messages you got because of it)? I really liked how the ep showed that chair have a balanced relationship where they both help each other and act as a team (or even an old married couple lol). B's not a damsel-in-distress, this time around it was her turn to support her leading man. xx

all of this.

B's not a damsel. The person who liked her being a damsel so he can be her hero and save her was not Chuck Bass. Some people just need to look in the mirror.

I enjoyed the episode. Unfortunately i've not had a chance to see it again because ever since i came online i've only answered some questions. I haven't reblogged any of the gifs  because i'm answering one question after another.

The episode was a great episode for CB. the scheme did not blow up in their face and they actually made headway. Blair is going to care about Chuck's future regardless of what these people want. It's just how relationships work. And likewise Chuck is going to have an interest in Blair's future.

i don't see any trace of dysfunction  I feel like both characters have good heads on  their shoulder and even without much physical intimacy their contentment with each other is still fulfilled. This is actually a mature, responsible relationship and some people will never understand that concept.

I also want to see Blair get those buyers and i think we will see that because i think that's what the writers are establishing for her. And Chuck is happy for her and Chuck support that. And she does the same for him.

I don't know how people find things that are wrong with that.

As for the painting. I don't think we'll get to see that. But i'm sure there will be a fanfic or two about it.

[blairhappiness-blog]

what did you think of blair's robe/head piece outfit at the end of the episode?? i personally hated it.

what did i think.

Well i'm not a fan. I'll just say that. For some reason, Blair's lounge wear since s2 has been matronly and unflattering. Idk why Eric Daman particularly insist on it being that way. Because he is an amazing costume designer but sometimes he forgets these girls are 21. 

I didn't like the fusion of colors. it looked like a saturated rainbow vomited all over the fabric. I would have liked the colors to be simpler. 

I actually don't have a problem with the head warp. I thought it was very editorial. i guess they were taking that Arabian theme a little literally. I could see the inspiration for the look but i hated her shoes. Why can't she just wear some satin flats.  It was just a sensory overload for me. Just like the makeup she had in the first scenes. Leighton is so naturally beautiful that unnatural makeup is quite the disservice to her beauty. less is more.