Lads, I have terrible news. The normies, they... They don't know about the sex wars, apparently...
Don't believe me? Here, take a look at a lib normie trying to characterize "millenial feminism".
"Normalize everything" and "sex is either degrading or empowering" - honey those. Those are TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE.
Chances are the lady wearing high heels all day every day because, well, she herself can take it, and she doesn't FEEL disempowered by that so fuck you for implying she is somehow a lesser feminist for that, and the lass posting up her weekly quota of "I won't shave you can't make me" posts as a service to all those who might follow her path of course and not all her ego (I mean, hey, you SHOULD feel brave for going against the societal standards of beauty, just don't frown on those that don't want to fall on that particullar grenade) are both on tumblr, but they hate each other's guts. Some of these possitions are clearly just attempts at reconciliation by the two (sometimes more lol) sides.
Some of these points are clearly the product of OP being a married mother, hence the fact that the feminist takes on men and relationships seem to be such a bugbear for her. I cannot help but sympathize, I myself am a raging pervert, hence me going into equally psychotic defensive mode whenever we here on tumblr discuss anything at all pretaining to sex (see my #atysposting tag for what happens when this side of me succumbs to doomerism and self-loathing).