#apathasex

[cessation-of-light]

OH FUCK OFF WITH THAT SS SKULL BULLSHIT GODDAMN

Dude, chill the hell out. I didn’t even notice it there when I reblogged the photo. I reblogged it for the aesthetic of the people. I don’t support nazis and you’d know that from many of my other posts on my tumblr.

Propaganda magazine also didn’t/doesn’t support nazis and just used the skull because they liked the way it looked and it was public domain at the time. People who supported the magazine didn’t even know it was an SS skull and it came to be more recognized as the “Propaganda skull.”

[vampryn]

SAME forreal my parents never let me have pets as a kid and i feel so shelteredf but i want to start smol as hell bc one of my sisters has a dog and the other one has a cat and forreal jealous but i live in a tiny apartment 

[sexpositivepunk]

I'm don't adhere to the ideology, but can you tell me why trans medicalism is bad? Because I've run across a few “afab“ TERFs who bemoaned the fact they used to identify as trans.

Yeah, trans medicalism is a form of identity policing. It states that in order to be transgender in the broadest sense, so being non-cis, you have to experience or have experienced gender dysphoria, depression over your assigned gender and you have to want to medically transition.

This clearly excludes a lot of people under the trans banner, some trans people might not want to medically transition and it enforces a gender binary. I’m not really the best at explaining this, but I can tell you that policing whether or not someone is trans simply with a checklist to see whether they experience several symptoms and whether they want to get sex reassignment surgery done is bad.

[zynische-banshee]

I didn't really want to talk again about this but yeah here we go.

Some months ago the person going under the nickname of Apathasex started to harass me and insult me just because I was sharing Death In June Material in my account.

She wrote on my profile that I am a nazi, a white supremacist, and other insults do not concern the political topics.

When I tried to demonstrate that she was wrong and that neither me or Death in June are Nazi, she blocked me and she kept insulting me on her account without giving me the chance to reply or defend myself.

Today she started to comment my pictures again with other insults.

Please, do not consider what she is writing. I am just so tired of it.

[makestheworldtastegood]

keep your trash out of my inbox you subhuman scumfuck. get the fuck out of here ill slit your throat with a broken bottle you fairy faggot. sieg heil you fucking privileged white nazi shitstain. ever heard of nonbinary queer instersex and genderfluid inclusion?

Hey everyone I got this hilarious ass shit in my inbox for saying that ‘folks’ is already gender neutral and doesn’t need an x at the end This person is 25 fucking years old

[rhythmlessgay]

im not resorting to being petty, if you had known anything about anything youd know that black metal is like the go to genre of suicidalism, misanthropy and deep depression. other genres that have suicide as a theme include gothic, classic, grunge, post-punk, classic rock, the blues or actually any genre of music at all. a lot of musicians are suicidal. its not a fucking gimmick like c&h makes it out to be. but what the fuck would you a gamer know about music. go back 2 your basement

You are really not helping your case that you’re not petty and without any real argument by coming to my inbox and just insulting me more, you realize that, right? Just admit you overreacted and go. 

[sexpositivepunk]

sorry for picking this up again, but you are in NO FUCKING WAY SEX POSITIVE if you actively try to stop making healthcare for trans people covered by [state] insurance, which is what you do when you say that trans people dont need dysphoria to be trans. this has nothing to do with non-binary or anything else. its not about people "faking". YOU ARE MAKING THINGS WORSE FOR PEOPLE WHO NEED MORE PROFESSIONAL CARE THAN OTHERS. FUCKING STOP.

“"I can tell you that policing whether or not someone is trans simply with a checklist to see whether they experience several symptoms and whether they want to get sex reassignment surgery done is bad." THIS IS A REQUIREMENT FOR INSURANCE TO COVER SURGERY.“

Alright, I think there’s been some miscommunication here. Let me start by saying I’ve had a very long and emotional day, so my apologies if I do still phrase things incorrectly. 

I would like to state that by saying policing people’s gender based on a checklist is wrong, I mean that whoever wants to have any form of srs should be able to have it, fully covered by [state] insurance. The fact that people should fit a checklist in order to have their care reimbursed or paid for is something I find morally reprehensible. 

Furthermore I think that peoples’ gender is their own business. Whether or not they experience dysphoria, depression or whichever symptom should not interfere with how we view their gender.

I would also like to inquire as to how you think my views stated here or in my previous answers make things worse. I am open to new/other viewpoints, new information etc. which might change the way I look at this. I’ve chosen to redact your insults and threats, because I’m genuinely interested in what you have to say and do not want to start any shit.

Now I’m sure your statements are motivated by one thing or the other and I’m curious as to what they might be and I’m open to discus them with you. I am by no means some oracle who just happens to know everything and alsways has the right answer, but let’s talk this over like adults.

[sexpositivepunk]

Is there any exclusive term for people who strive for/or have had a sex change?

Well people who’ve had sex reassignment surgery/surgeries can be called post-op, but I know pre-op is also used by people who have no intention whatsoever to undergo srs. I am not aware of any exclusive term for people striving for srs, but maybe my followers can weigh in?