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[asexuallalligator]

What am I supposed to do when it comes to being pressured to have grand-children? My step-father especially is very persistent and manipulative, once extracting a promise from me to have five children in a public place with witnesses. It was treated as a nonserious joke, but the thing is, he keeps bringing it up every now and then, reminding me that I’ve promised him 5 grandchildren and ‘teasingly’ threatening to track down the witnesses. The only thing that I actually find more repulsive than sex is the idea of carrying children. I resent that I have to put up with as much of the trappings of childbearing as I normally do, like menstruating. I can’t imagine telling my parents this though. Their constant reminders that 'the clock is ticking’ is really starting to wear me down. — arronaut

I’m seeing a couple different avenues here, depending on how you want to address the situation. The first of which may not apply to you, seeing as how I’m not sure whether you just don’t want to carry children or if you don’t want to have kids at all? If the former, and if adoption seems like a better option for you, you could drop mentions of the other methods people use to have children, citing the benefits and teasing in your interest in them. If you don’t want kids at all, you could just go for it and tell them about it. It may be a hard conversation, and there may be an argument, but it may also help if all parties know where the others stand on the topic.

If you don’t want to have that whole conversation right now, and just want to put off the comments, you could try a couple of delay tactics. For example, you could ask that they don’t get too excited about you having kids when you’re not in a steady, long-term relationship (the ‘one step at a time’ approach). Or you could mention that the comments make you feel pressured, without citing the exact reasons why (not a lie, but not getting into the harder parts).

Remember, you don’t owe your parents grandkids; no one does.

[destielfanfic]

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Ask #1 (itseldo): there's this fic... #1

Hello! I'm trying to find a work where Dean is a prostitute who uses the name "Jensen" and Cas is his English Lit professor who reads him poetry and won't let him see his face. Any clues?

Found by horrorfemme1138:

My Words, They Pour [NC-17, 22,300 word count] prostitute!dean

He had heard about Jimmy, how he had booked every single girl The Roadhouse had to offer, putting them through some sort of auditioning process. How the guy decided to keep Meg was beyond Dean’s thought processes. That wasn’t the strange part, though. Jimmy had a strict ‘no physical contact’ policy. Not only that, Dean had heard that Meg hadn’t even been allowed to see what the guy looked like.

Ask #2 (anon): cas/april + jealous!dean

Do you have any fanfics in your jealous!dean tag, where Dean gets jealous of April for sleeping with Cas?? Thank you!

We do have a 9x03 tag with a bunch of coda fic that might have what you are after. However, the episode was quite divisive and a lot of fic writers glossed over/ignored that situation and April in general. AO3 has a cas/april tag (or rather april/cas), so you could start there and search for "jealous" to narrow results.

Ask #3 (arronaut): there's this fic... #2

I humbly beg help locating a fan faction which I somehow misplaced on my computer! I do not know the title or the author. Dean/Cas fic where Dean is trapped in an alternate universe with barbaric angels. There is a caste system, with angels whose wings have been torn off serving as slaves. Dean convinces Castiel to travel back to his reality, and Michael challenges Cas to blood combat

Found by the asker:

The Way of Things [T, 6,300 word count]

Planet of The Angels AU. Dean ends up in a strange place that's entirely populated by what looks like humans with wings. He's taken prisoner by one of the winged people. It calls itself Castiel.

Ask #4 (hannispnererilover): there's this fic... #3

Sorry to bother you! There was a fic about Dean and Cas being friends and they like each other but deny it and Cas's whole family (Gabriel, Micheal, Balthazar) and his mom try to hook them up while teasing them. I remember there was a scene when Dean was fixing Cas's mom's car and his mom turned up the thermostat and teased Cas. It had monkey in the title. It was comedy/au and it was on fanfiction. THANKS!

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[kittychins]

If we were dating it would end very quickly, due to my antisocial behavior and awful temper.

we can be antisocial and grumpy together tho uwu

If I was dating you.. (finish it in my ask) 

[weirdemmaline]

arronaut reblogged your photoset: saries-27: A few photos from the Joliet, IL...

Hey, I was there too! :-)

:D Sweet! What area were you sitting in? Did you go out to the bus afterward? Wasn't it a good show?