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Hey! Sorry about this but idk when else to look, awhile ago I saw a meme that was like "when some is trying to flirt with me" *panicked asexual noises* I was trying to find it for my ace friend but I can't seem to find it, is there any chance you'd know what I was talking about?

I couldn’t find the one you were talking about so I made you and your friend one!

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Ok. I need some advice. So, there is this girl. And I’m Aro. I think it’s a crush? But I don’t wanna like make out with her. I wanna hold her hand and cuddle her and get to know her. I think it actually might be a squish, but I really don’t know. And I don’t know how she would react. Also, she’s gay and I’m non-binary who’s still in the closet, so I’m not sure if she could even feel the same. God I’m a mess, but she soo nice, and sweet, and pretty. Sorry.

Don’t ever apologize for your feelings. That’s not a healthy mindset. You are allowed to have thoughts whether it be ‘good’ or ‘bad’. Also I believe that such thing as a zucchini, where you’re in a relationship but it’s not romantic or sexual. You can bring up the topic to ask her how she feels about it. If you feel comfortable you can ask her what specific label she uses. Then you can figure it out from there. Long story short, Ask!

(Remember I can answer in @asexual-vents more freely and more advice is on that blog!)

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There’s an actor I admire a lot, I think that they sing, dance and act very well. I also find them attractive. But I don’t have a crush on them, and this one girl keeps saying I do and bringing it up. I think I’m aro and it’s making me uncomfortable, but I don’t want to out myself to her if I’m not sure yet. Do you have any advice on how to make her stop?

Well that is a tricky situation there. You see, you’re dealing with a whole person with her own experiences so making her stop would be difficult. Try to make her understand that you like the actor aesthetically, or you find them funny, not that you have a crush. If you know you’re aroromantic, then don’t take other people’s words to heart. There’s only one person who knows you better than anyone else. You! Be true to yourself!

(Just a reminder that I have an advice blog @asexual-vents because some people are just here for memes and I can do a follow up over there if you need some clarification)