could i please have some help with stuff?
ive been into diapers and little stuff for a few years, and my current boyfriend is the first since i got into it. we've been together for nearly half a year. i really wanna tell him about little me but i dont know how and its really scary :(
do you have any ideas or suggestions on how to tell him?
I would love to help, I definitely have some experience with that! I could probably give you better advice through messages so I could know a little more about you and the situation, but only if you want to. I'll give you some key points here though that REALLY helped me in some of those times.
1. Ask about kinks. Ask them if they're open to talk about kinks or fetish stuff. If they are, ask about theirs, tell them yours, maybe they have some stuff you can get into as well!
2. Don't ever put yourself down before you start. Avoid saying words like weird, odd, etc. i.e "I have a weird kink" You're putting yourself behind the starting line. If you have to, use words like Different, eccentric, fun, etc.
3. This one is tough, but be confident. If they say anything that makes you feel like you're being judged, OWN IT, "It's not weird, there's LOTS of people into it" Don't make them feel like they're weird for not knowing that, and don't get defensive; don't snap at them and don't come off as snotty.
4. If any of this works, or they're willing to try it out for you, EASE INTO IT. Also a hard thing to do, at least for me it was, because it's so exciting!!! But start very slow, one thing at a time, and let things come organically, let them ask questions.
I can probably give you much better, less generic advice if you message me. Up to you though!
