What should one do when they dont feel like talking to absolutely no one about anything. And i have seen a lot of pages say to leave the person which dont make you "as" happy or help you or support you as you do for them, but should i leave these people even if this means me being completely alone and not even have a weigh idea of having someone
I need these people in my life but every time i talk to or see them I just feel worse about myself, i know its not right to compare yourself to anyone but i just cant help it, like every time I see them around talking to people and not even give a second thought about inviting me or just to ask how i am even after you can clearly see i am not doing well. Should i start faking how i am in from of them as well. I just feel so bad about myself rn and even though i know what to do and could have and have helped tones of other people to get them out of this state I just cant seem to do it for myself, it just seems useless whenever i talk to them about what's going on when they haven't even asked for and not even actually care they are just like yeah okay, tell me, talk to me and then its just a big nothing, atleast that's what i feel about it
Its not even a question anymore, just me ranting about my life, but if you have read all of this thank you for taking out the time, I would really appreciate if you can help me get out of this mess of a life i have
Hi! This question legit feels like it came from past me! When I was probably my most depressed I kept people in my life just for the sake of having “friends” but they usually made me feel even worse about my self. I ended up discovering that it’s better to be alone than it is to have people around you that aren’t helping your mental health get better. The right people will eventually come into your life. Cut ties with those who make you feel negative (this includes unfollowing them on social media!). Hope this at least somewhat helped! 💕