hii, I love your blog 🫶🏾🩵 I was wondering if you knew what synastry overlys that would make one person always nervous around the other one?
what causes anxiousness/nervousness in synastry and composite
i'm going to work off of what i already have posted (no asteroids discussed after this post will be included or added after the fact). finally, i would like to state that NO TWO CHARTS ARE THE SAME. what i am about to list out does not mean you will for sure need these exact things (or all of these things) to be shy, nervous, and/or anxious around one another. if you don't understand my thought process, feel free to comment with questions!
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your mercury or saturn in their 12h or 12h ruler negatively aspecting mercury or saturn
i find that having these planets in another persons 12h tends to make mercury/saturn people feel like they freeze up or have nothing to say to the 12h person. often i find that mercury/saturn feel anxious and they nervously talk to the 12h person, sometimes oversharing what they think/feel. 12 house person might also feel like mercury person doesn't like them which makes them even more anxious when they are around them.
mercury negatively aspecting saturn
mercury person could say something that offends the saturn person without having thought that it would - simply because they didn't remember a reason not to say it... then there is significant tension between the two... mercury person might not to able to able to pick up on saturn person's feelings/thoughts and instead feels as though they must "walk on eggshells" around the saturn person. mercury person can become clumsy around saturn person - they might trip or even drop things around saturn person.
your mercury in their 3h, 3h mercury in composite, and/or gemini mercury in composite
all of these manifest like social anxiety, nervous chatter, and/or in ability to say what you mean to one another.
mercury negatively aspecting saturn, mercury negatively aspecting uranus, and/or saturn negatively aspecting uranus
this is general nervousness around one another - mercury and uranus are ramblers/fidgeters while saturn is shy and tends to freeze up.
12h mercury, saturn, and/or neptune
often these people get too in their heads and overthink what was said or done around them. the planet person tends to do the overthinking about the house person.
echo (asteroid 60) - mercury, echo (asteroid 60) - narcissus (asteroid 37117), and/or your echo in their 3h
echo person might find themselves mute around mercury, narcissus, and/or 3h person.
mnemosyne (asteroid 57) negatively aspecting mercury and/or saturn
mnemosyne person is likely to lose their train of thought and/or feel ill equipped to talk with mercury/saturn person.
pan (asteroid 4450) - mercury and/or your pan (asteroid 4450) in their 3h
often the pan person with panic when talking with mercury/3h person.
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