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The 12th House & How You Haunt People 👻

Notes⁠♡ these are all purely MY observations as an astrologer using other charts / readings I've done previously. You can thank my pattern recognition for some of the observations I make, this is meant to be taken as entertainment and not so serious.

Aries 12H

You don't actually do anything to haunt people, it's more that you just embrace your true authenticity that makes people feel haunted. You're the kind of person doesn't just let their ideas go to waste, you take action and you chase what you want, and most of the time you do it before others. This can make people feel like they are always two steps behind you, like they have to catch up, or like you are reminding them of your fortunes and their failures. People have a really hard time seeing you succeed because it reminds them of how they didn't take risks or initiate their plans. Unfortunately the more successful you become, the worst they feel and the more “haunted” they feel by your presence.

Taurus 12H

You haunt people when you take care of yourself and when you spoil yourself. You haunt people when you choose to embrace beauty over pain, you haunt people during transformational periods of your life. Your physical beauty can haunt people especially if you have a makeover or if you decide to put in more effort with your looks. You might not realize that when you start showing up more authentically as yourself physically, people will start to love and hate you. Sometimes you haunt people by your kindness and generosity. You might also haunt people who feel like inadequate mothers or parents in comparison to you.

Gemini 12H

People are haunted by what they hear about you, what they think about you, or what they remember about you. You haunt their psyche, which is why you might notice that people have a hard time “letting you go” and will try to cling onto the friendship or relationship even if it is way outdated. People could hear haunting things about you or could find out shocking things. You ghost people so those who are ghosted by you could one day find out that you got married and now you're a parent, etc. What they hear about you is shocking and gets stuck with them for a long time, good or bad. It's mostly because these people no longer have access to you or this information from the source, they have to rely on the grapevine.

Cancer 12H

People are haunted by how you loved them. It truly is one of a kind and they will never ever experience it ever again, let me say that one more time EVER AGAIN. 💔 they will be haunted by the ways that you saved them, by the way is that you came through when others abandoned them. They will be haunted by your empathy, they will be haunted by how you are unaffected by them. They will not understand how they didn't leave a significant impact on you as you did on them. Even if you are hurting, you will never show it and that haunts them. They are haunted by your ability to have a happy home without them.

Leo 12H

People are haunted by your presence. Your name has been spoken in rooms you've never entered, you've been talked about, you've been picked apart and analyzed in groups/situations you haven't even been involved in. This alone haunts people. Seeing you shine haunts people. Your wins, your trophies, your awards, your recognition is all that haunts your enemies. It's the fact that you are favored over them that haunts them. It's your uniqueness, and I'm not saying this to gas you up because in a lot of cases I feel like you aren't aware of how much you shine, but it's that light that haunts people.

Virgo 12H

People feel haunted by the way you change their life. For instance, you could have come into their world and introduce them to new people, new preferences, etc., added so much value to their life, only for that to be taken away once you are gone. When you leave, it's kind of like they fall into hermit mode themselves and have to realize that you are the reason why they had so many friends, or the reason why they have so much fun etc. The mutable nature of Virgo has brought consistency and spontaneity, a nice balance of both, into their lives. They're haunted by the loneliness they feel once you're gone.

Libra 12H

People are haunted by your balance and by your grace. People are haunted by how quickly you can make friends and adapt and be accepted. People are haunted by your physical beauty as it's very striking and it feels like it's in their face lol I've noticed that people are haunted by your relationships, who you were with before them, who you're with after them, who you dated 10 years ago etc. there's something dynamic about your relationships that make people feel insignificant, weak, and haunted. Perhaps you make your partners’ exes feel this way. People are haunted by your grace.

Scorpio 12H

People are haunted by your power. People feel weak around you and it's not your fault. When you come around, you give off a very strong amount of confidence that others feel very threatened by. People are haunted by this because they notice how you can work a room because of the natural power you have. People are haunted by what you know because you tend to be a walking chamber of secrets. People are haunted by your secrets, people are haunted by what you say because what you say can be venomous, rash, and deeply poisonous. You are not one to shy away and people are haunted by that. People are haunted by your sexuality, by the way that others perceive your sexuality, and by the ways in which you are empowered by sex.

Sagittarius 12H

People are haunted by the lessons you left with them. You are the kind of person that doesn't go anywhere without leaving an impact and once you go, you are gone. You haunt people's memory, you haunt people's psyche like your sister sign gemini, but different in a sense that your energy haunts people so much, you cause people to go through spiritual awakenings 😬 you know how to rattle people up, so your words definitely haunt them. Your actions and suddenly leaving haunt them. The way that you can switch up to better yourself haunts them. The fluidity of your philosophies and the way that you can put yourself in somebody else's shoes haunts them. You're humble while proud and you are very fortunate because of this, and that haunts them as well.

Capricorn 12H

People are haunted by your discipline, you seem to always be ahead because you chase longevity. People feel haunted by your status and by your success. I also noticed that people are haunted by the guilt they feel when they do you wrong. They feel like they didn't ”get away” with hurting you — the feelings their actions causes lead to gut wrenching guilt that they hold onto for years, and feel utterly haunted by you. They're haunted by their mistakes regarding you. I see those who go against Capricorn 12H sometimes repeating karmic cycles or feeling like they keep meeting the shadow versions of themselves in other people. They will be haunted by the fact that they did wrong by you because it'll morally weigh them down. They will also be haunted by loss, how much they lose, loss of a job etc.

Aquarius 12H

People are haunted by your distance. You have a gift of making people feel so loved, and so taken care of, but the second that something goes wrong, you can detached like you never knew them. This haunts them. They are haunted by the fact that they cannot pin you down. You haunt people because they feel like they never truly knew you. You leave people with an unbearable feeling of “what if” and this weighs on their hearts and definitely haunts them. They might try to find you in other people but fail. Your differences haunt people, your non-conformity haunts people. People are shocked by your real thoughts and by your bravery. You haunt them because you made them question their worth, their identity, their freedom, what they stand for. Your unpredictability and ability to vanish in order to evolve is something that haunts their dreams.

Pisces 12H

People are haunted by the feeling of you. You're the kind of ache that doesn't fade or the memory that feels more like a dream. You haunts their bodies and the parts that they try to numb through alcohol and drugs to forget you. People are haunted by metaphors, songs, books, media, smells etc that remind them of you. No kidding, you can literally blur into their subconscious and make them feel like they're going crazy because they can't stop feeling haunted by you. I think these people love and hate your empathy because they can't understand how you can love so deeply and yet back way when you have to love yourself first. People feel haunted by How deeply they felt seen by you and how impossible it feels to find somebody else like you.

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Solar Return Observations ✨💖

Uranus in 2H can definitely shake up your finances/income/possessions/self-worth in a way that is completely unexpected. Could go either way financial instability or unconventional way of making money (look with other placements/aspects)

Pluto in 10H something about your career path is may come to an end could indicate layoffs, quitting, promotion etc but something is changing here. Transformation in career, public reputation, life direction.

Sun in 4H moving back home/very internal private homebody year. Family, home, your foundation becomes your central theme.

Lilith in 7H can manifest as you refusing to stay in a relationship that makes you smaller

Mars in 6H you’ll see a lot of your energy/focus happening in your day to day/routine. Increase in productivity/stress/overwork/conflict in the workplace.

Chiron in 12H brings up unconscious wounds. Might actually be very subtle but it’s happening.There is some healing that you’re doing internally and privately maybe through reflection maybe through therapy may just processing but others don’t see this

Sun in 1H a very public visible year. You’re noticed and your identity becomes “brighter” (lmao see what I did there).

Mars in 12H the work you doing is done in private and there is no external/tangible output yet but that doesn’t mean that nothing is happening. Behind the scenes work, prep, development. Builder energy but make it private lmao.

Uranus in 11H can shake up your friendships/network. You might make new friends, find yourself leaving old friend groups, or you will find yourself gravitating towards a new group of “unconventional” people. Could very much be an online group. Something with internet communities/audiences potentially. Long term goals may change.

Moon in 12H very emotional reflective inward year. May find yourself retreating more than usual as you process feelings.

Pluto in 7H your closest relationships (one on one relationships) are being transformed and by that I mean you can completely start to see people for who they are ie hidden relationship dynamics/intentions become visible and harder to dismiss and the relationship ends or it can make for an intense transformation and make the dynamic closer/deeper. New relationships might feel pretty intense (don’t fall for red flags).

Lilith in 5H refusing to apologize for how you love/what you enjoy/your creativity/pleasure/self-expression (louder queen 👏)

Jupiter in 12H growth is happening in a way thats private and unseen by others. You might not realize it but you are the 12H is just so private.

Mercury in 2H a year spent thinking/planning/studying/writing focused on your skills/resources/finances/self worth

Uranus 4H something disruptive/unexpected happens to your inner world/home/foundations/living situation

Pluto in 6H something transforms your day to day. Work habits, routines, health, daily life. Something changes about how you spend your time or care for yourself.

Node in 7H relationships and one on one relationships are an area of growth this year (which means S. Node in 1H so you’re meant to lean into the direction of the other rather than solely rely on yourself)

Node in 8H (S. Node in 2H) this year is about learning to lean into others through trust/being vulnerable/sharing/intimacy rather than self reliance/your attachment to stability (which makes it vulnerable ie 8h).

**Always remember to look at the entire chart to see the bigger picture/check the overlays

Astrology Observations

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Aries Moon •

Ironically while Aries Moon impulsively feels and can be hotheaded, they also get over things pretty quickly. That doesnt mean they've forgotten. If the same thing happens again they will remember and the anger will grow. They are quick to point things out and pretty direct about how they feel.

Taurus Moon •

Taurus moons can be easily offended. Sometimes its a joke and sometimes its real. This placement could find a way to be offended by almost anything if they wanted too. This is particular to anything passive aggressive though. You could be directly mad at them and they will literally shrug and be pretty neutral unless you start hammering into them. I swear they can be suoer nosey too and will likely share a secret they've been told, but not maliciously. Serious FOMO.

Gemini Moon •

Gemini Moon wants to be involved but its not FOMO like Taurus Moon. They tend to switch up how they feel and forget how they felt prior to reacting on their current feelings. I believe due to this they have at least one opinion/feeling they cling onto no matter what, even if they act like they feel different about it, ironically enough. They have a tendency towards jealousy and favoritism as well.

Cancer Moon •

Again, I dont believe placements aside from your ascendant really impact your apperance but why does every Cancer moon (including myself) have watery eyes. Its like we have tears ready to go or something lmao. My friend said "its like you have two wolves inside, one wants to cry, and the other wants to cry and doesnt show."

Leo Moon •

Leo Moons tend to absorb the emotions of their surroundings. Typically the person closest to them. My friend is a Leo Moon and dated another Leo Moon, and even when he was the reason she was panicking or overwhelmed he would take it and start panicking and become overwhelmed and they would both be crying. As sad as that relationship was it was kind of hilarious to hear he would be crying with her over something he started. 🤦‍♀️ I notice Leo Moons tend to be creative as well but it depends on whether they have enough earth in their chart to foster the creativity into real skill. They also have pretty decent FOMO.

Virgo Moon •

They have pretty controlled emotions. This can manifest as suppression Ive noticed. I think all the earth signs tend to suppress but Virgo does so the most. I swear the world could burn down and they would show the least reaction. They tend to intellectualize as well. I do feel this placement can really manifest differently based on othe placements, moreso the others signs. One person I know with this sign is that they are the laziest person you will ever meet and then the other one I know is super responsible. They will power through dark times and hide emotions even if they are on the verge of a breakdown and then bring it up a couple months later like it wasnt a big deal though. Its like they cant talk about their emotions until they feel they are in control of them.

Libra Moon •

Libra moons tend to focus more on others instead of themselves. They tend to be open books and are decently family oriented (which includes friends). They grew up with silent expectations placed on them. They tend to be people pleasers as well but at least they are decent peacemakers. They give good apologies as well.

Scorpio Moon •

Obsessive tendencies are real. Scorpio is a sign of extremes so they can either be super vindictive and jealous, or will literally move the entire world for you and testify for you when they watched you commit a crime. When someone has any Scorpio in the big three you can just tell. Scorpio moons specifically are the best of the 3 at telling lies from truths. They tend to feel emptions intensely and they do tend to either have a darker past or be more comfortable with the darker side of life.

Sagittarius Moon •

I swear if they feel anything the entire world has to know about it. Even if they silently remove themselves you can still feel their emotions from another room. They can be pretty flaky as well since they want the freedom to do what they want on their schedule. If they made concrete plans they at least apologize if they have to cancel.

Capricorn Moon •

If they sound mad at you, the line between "just kinda upset" and "actually upset" is so thin its hard to tell how to respond unless you really know that person. If you respond thinking "theyre kinda upset" when theyre actually upset, watch them lose it. Ironically, if youre mad at them first, it is just like the stereotype where they look like they feel absolutely nothing and even get this awkward look. Sometimes theyll start chuckling, maybe as a nervous response? The problems with their mother's are real too.

Aquarius Moon •

Disconnected from their emotions. The stereotype about them not being able to cry is legit true I swear. It is RARE to see them cry. I notice they tend to be flighty as well. They also tend to think throwing money or services at things will fix the situation when people want emotional engagement or acknowledgement. They tend to shut down when they are upset and will even give the silent treatment.

Pisces Moon •

Pisces moons are super interesting. They can be both super open and emotionally caring, and then same day act like you called them a horrible person for asking them to stop leaving pots in the sink. It may be specific to those who have heavy Pisces/Water placements, but I notice a lot of Pisces Moons fit more the negative Pisces Stereotype then Pisces Suns. They tend to expect things in return for their emotional kindness and while Cancer Moons can feel victimized I feel like Pisces Moons do this worse. You wanna talk about holding a grudge and a martyr complex? When healthy, they can be super compassionate and open people though!

These are just my observations from the people I know and research! Take it with a grain of salt.

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Sex Appeal Astro Observations #1

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Your sex appeal is not just how you look. It’s how people end up paying attention to you without deciding to...

Venus in the 2nd house

You come across as physically attractive in a very immediate way. People don’t overthink it, they just register you as appealing without needing a reason.

Mars in the 10th house

You are perceived as someone who acts with intention. Even small movements look deliberate, and that reads as confidence.

Moon trine Venus

You are seen as approachable. People assume emotional ease around you before they even interact with you.

Mercury sextile Mars

You are noticed for how you speak. Your timing, your tone, and the way you respond keep people focused on you.

Lilith in the 5th house

You are perceived as someone who doesn’t perform for attention. That lack of effort is undoubtedly what draws attention to you, because you come across as a natural, not someone fake.

Eros in Capricorn

Your attraction is read as controlled. When you show interest, it feels intentional, not impulsive.

Venus trine Uranus

You are seen as different in a way that feels natural. People notice it without feeling pushed away.

Juno in the 10th house

You come across as someone who takes connection seriously. Even in casual settings, people don’t read you as superficial, and they feel secure with you.

Mars sextile Saturn

Your actions are read as measured and controlled. That restraint makes people pay more attention to you, as they try to read you better.

A lot of you don’t actually see yourselves the way you’re perceived, especially when it comes to attraction. It’s not that something is missing, you just don’t know how it shows and how to use it to get what you want.

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🌼 Astro Observation: Asteroid Jobse (215463) 🌼

I've been quietly watching asteroid Jobse in charts and one thing I've noticed...

The sign and house of Jobse often describe the type of work environment, responsibilities, or life purpose that keeps pulling a person back in even when they try to go in another direction

✨ Jobse in the 1st House: Your work becomes part of your identity. People associate you with what you do

✨ Jobse in the 2nd House: Strong focus on income, resources, and building financial security through your skills

✨ Jobse in the 3rd House: Communication, teaching, writing, social media, marketing, or working with information can become important themes

✨ Jobse in the 4th House: Family businesses, working from home, real estate, or creating security for others may show up

✨ Jobse in the 5th House: Creative work, entertainment, children, hobbies turned careers, or self expression through work

✨ Jobse in the 6th House: This placement often lives and breathes daily work routines. Service, health, organization, and dedication become major themes

✨ Jobse in the 7th House: Partnerships can strongly influence career choices. Some people find jobs through spouses, clients, or business partners

✨ Jobse in the 8th House: Careers involving research, psychology, healing, taxes, inheritance matters, or managing other people's resources

✨ Jobse in the 9th House: Teaching, publishing, travel, higher education, spirituality, or international work

✨ Jobse in the 10th House: Career visibility tends to become a major life focus. Recognition and reputation matter

✨ Jobse in the 11th House: Working with groups, communities, audiences, social causes, or online platforms

✨ Jobse in the 12th House: Spiritual work, hospitals, charities, research, or careers that require privacy

🌺 What makes Jobse even more interesting is when it tightly aspects your Sun, Moon, MC, Saturn, Jupiter, North Node, or 6th and 10th house rulers

I've seen it describe not only what people do but sometimes why they feel called toward certain work in the first place

Now I'm curious...

What sign, house, and aspects does your Jobse have👀👀👀 I have mine in 1st house?

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Fama 408: What to post on social media, that will grant you fame🩰 ₊˚⊹౨ৎ ₊˚⊹.

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FAMA IN THE 1ST HOUSE | FAMA IN ARIES OR IN THE 1 13,25 DEGREES.

So anything about yourself honestly, skincare self care, people would really love when you show how you do you, like advice, when you talk about stuff that happened to you or just share experiences you had, and how your day was going, also if you participate in sports or anything unique that’s just you!, focus on your personal brand!.

FAMA IN THE 2ND HOUSE | FAMA IN TAURUS OR IN THE 2,14,26 DEGREES.

Your voice, your taste, your lifestyle is what makes you magnetic, people are drawn to how you indulge, how you romanticize life, how you spend your money, also food!, cook food, or share something you do with your hands, also your voice, ASMR, singing etc… also if you collect something, what you value, anything vintage, your makeup and perfumes, show your routines, your luxury everything luxurious, your food, your outfits, your self-worth journey. Talk about money, confidence, standards. Build a brand around what you have and how you carry yourself.

FAMA IN THE 3RD HOUSE | FAMA IN GEMINI OR IN THE 3,14,26 DEGREES.

Lock in, write that digital product or Ebook, sell it!, or honestly write!!, your thoughts and your words are your power, speak. Write. Share. Post your opinions, your random thoughts, your storytelling, your humor, anything!, People will love your mind and how you express things, also do mini vlogs, talk to the camera, share daily life in a chatty way. You’re not here to be silent you’re here to be herad, do a podcast etc…! You could post on X and get money or substack, any platform that rewards you when you write because you will get viral.

FAMA IN THE 4TH HOUSE | FAMA IN CANCER OR IN THE 4,16,28 DEGREE.

Look i honestly love this placement, your softness is your brand, and people are drawn to your emotions, your comfort, your home energy, share anything domestic, if you’re a mom and think it’s too late to post on social media but you have this placement, please don’t hesitate to start posting on that tiktok account, people will be interested, share your safe space, your routines at home, your feelings, your healing journey. Let people feel you, like idk i just get cozy vibes and family energy whenever i think about this placement, if you do home DIY post it!, bake and cook anything sweet!

FAMA IN THE 5TH HOUSE | FAMA IN LEO OR IN THE 5,17,29 DEGREES.

Please start posting your art, your talents etc.. anything creative and artistic you’re passionate about, post aesthetic photos or aesthetic edits, LITERALLY PAINT OR DRAW OR POST YOU ART DUDE!, your hair routine, my friend knows how to do beautiful blowouts with heatless curls, when she posted the tutorial online, boom, 1m views and about 20k followers in a week!, just from a single video. People are obsessed with your confidence and your creativity. Don’t hold back. Be extra. Be iconic, also just literally post anything im begging you will get famous!.

FAMA IN THE 6TH HOUSE | FAMA IN VIRGO OR IN THE 6,18 DEGREES.

Share your routine, your favorite books, if you’re a writer talk with people about your book and share writing tips or book reviews, Your discipline is what makes you powerful. Show your routines, your glow-up process, your habits, your “how to fix your life” content people will trust you. They look at you so give advice and make it detailed!. If you workout share it.

FAMA IN THE 7TH HOUSE | FAMA IN LIBRA OR IN THE 7,19 DEGREES.

Your relationships are your spotlight, and im not talking about just love, Whether it’s friendships, love, or even your dynamic with people share it, you will see yourself gravitating towards famous people just naturally, you’re a magnet to them honestly take soft videos or aesthetic anything and post it!, pretty conversations, social life. People love how you connect. Your charm and your energy with others is what attracts attention.

FAMA IN THE 8TH HOUSE | FAMA IN SCORPIO OR IN THE 8,20 DEGREE.

Read fama in the 12th house, minus the art part, focus on your esoteric knowledge, also share true crime stories or podcasts!, but in general you’re not meant to be fully understood and that’s your power, Talk about taboo topics, healing, shadow work, power dynamics, Show glimpses, not everything, People will be obsessed trying to figure you out and don’t chase attention, share what people are afraid to talk about and rebel!, talk about sex or anything that you want , also teach people financially, and speak up about your traumas (only if you think this will heal you).

FAMA IN THE 9TH HOUSE | FAMA IN SAGITTARIUS OR IN THE 9,21 DEGREES.

Travel and document it, that’s it, travel, or share anything about cultures, if you’re from a different culture represent it, also people will be interested in your learning process, in your philosophy, different beliefs, share what opens your mind, and please write, the 9th house is the house of publishing, you have a huge potential for being published, so write a book and you know what start by writing articles on Subatck!, teach what you know. People follow you because you make them see life differently. You’re here to inspire.

FAMA IN THE 10TH HOUSE | FAMA IN CAPRICORN OR IN THE 10,22 DEGREES.

Do you have a unique job that’s niche, aesthetically pleasing or you think you can be passionate posting it about social media?, duh do it!!, because honestly you’re meant to be known for your success, your work, your ambition, your achievements, show them, and build something real, people will respect you and will put you on pedestal, and honestly it’s like wining the jackpot with this placement, post anything, people will look at you as “that girl.” Or just as a muse, Authority, status, discipline—this is your lane, also share your goals, or successes, teach people how to be disciplined, and talk about your job!.

FAMA IN THE 11TH HOUSE | FAMA IN AQUARIUS OR IN THE 11,23 DEGREES.

Honestly, the ultimate social media fame placement, i have it and i guarantee you, i go viral literally posting anything and anywhere!, the best thing about this placement is that you stand out by being different and being unique, people love hearing your thoughts, Your ideas and seeing your aesthetics, a tip is that try to build a community, not just followers, you’re so cool that people actually feel like they belong with you. Also be real talk about things others don’t, be unconventional, that’s exactly why you’ll be noticed. Also with more years posting on social media, a great perk you’ll have easily is that you will notice patterns on how to get viral, so yeah just do it! (If you have Venus, or venus aspects your 11th house ruler or fama, your main money source will be on social media).

FAMA IN THE 12TH HOUSE | FAMA IN PISCES OR IN THE 12,24 DEGREES.

This one was a bit tricky to analyze, but your magic is subtle you don’t need to show everything, so try soft content, dreamy aesthetics, spirituality, art, emotions, music, you know those quote videos on tiktok that go viral?, same vibe, UGC and faceless accounts are your strength, because surprise not so surprising, your mystery and privacy are your aura!!! People are drawn to your aura, not just your face. You’re meant to be felt, not fully seen!. If you’re spiritual or just gifted with esoteric talents!, post them with caution, because you might get drained easily just as 6th house fama.