(good boy Arlo~ please :3c)
🌘 : how hard is it to really know them?
🧨 : what pushes them past the point of restraint?
🫠 : is it easy for them to get turned on, or do they need emotional safety first?
🌘 001. I wouldn't say it's the most difficult task. Arlo doesn't hide much beyond the fact he talks to ghosts (and he only does this because he knows people will think he's doolally), he omits information, but doesn't everyone? He's not someone who will overshare with a stranger, but he's not be elusive, either. Surface level Arlo is very much his real self, there is just plenty under the surface. Thing is, since he lost his parents, he's just not used to people wanting to know him. I mean, his nickname around town is 'Connie' just because of his family name, but even that stopped feeling personal to him. He is 'Connie' because there are no other O'Connor's. That's all. He's the marker for the last, and folks are fine with him existing in that isolation. No wonder he talks to ghosts.
🧨002. Arlo has always been a gentle soul. A shy kid, maybe a bit of a pushover — until a weird little girl helped him with that. At his core, he's extremely patient. His life is quite slow, restraint comes easy. His weakness protectiveness, maybe a touch of possessiveness. And it's not just for people. Deface something he's worked hard on and he's going to be mega pissed. Hurt someone he loves, and a very tall, very angry man is coming for you. His lives by the simple notion of "pick on someone your own size", so if you're causing trouble and punching down, he can be pushed to beat the shit outta ya.
🫠 003. By a stranger? No. He doesn't do that. He needs some form of bond with them, even if it's a very mutual spark over a few pints or glasses of wine, rare, but it's something. But with someone he knows and likes? It's not that difficult. He's always up for it, he's just easily preoccupied. Likes to do things with his hands. Sometimes forgets some things he can do with his hands can be very, very fun. If you want to catch him horny without any trigger, wait until morning. He probably won't let you out of bed.