i haven't watched all of miraculous ladybug so take this post with a grain of salt, but one theory i love is the headcanon of Adrien being autistic.
but not autistic as in "he's masking heavily as Adrien, but as Chat Noir he gets to be himself."
autistic as in "both Adrien and Chat Noir are him masking in different ways."
Adrien Agreste is Adrien masking as a perfect little rule follower, the type of autistic kid who doesn't get clocked as autistic by the adults around him because he overcompensates heavily, meaning people can't use him 'misbehaving' (in quotes because we all know I mean struggling, people are just jerks about autistic kids struggling) as a way to notice that he's autistic.
Chat Noir, on the other hand, is Adrien masking as 'the class clown' or 'the funny one.' it's like he's trying to be like a character from a show he likes, a character that's funny and confident who people love. Chat Noir is not Adrien's true self, Chat Noir is Adrien in a mask that isn't as restrictive as usual, but one that is still restrictive.
the 'Adrien Agreste' mask is restrictive in the way that he has to be very aware all the time. he has to keep his emotions in check, his movements in check, everything in check. every moment of real relaxation (especially if it's around someone with authority over him) is a risk.
the 'Chat Noir' mask is restrictive in the way that he feels the need to stick to the role he's chosen. sure, he can finally express joy and happiness in the ways he wants to, a major improvement from his usual mask, but his role as 'funny and supportive partner' can at times get in the way of him being a person as well. he might feel like he doesn't have the right to be upset about certain things because it's his role to be a good partner.
and he may not even know that a major part of this struggle is because he's masking something like autism, because he's been trained since day one to see his struggles as not mattering. considering how much of a dirtbag gabriel was, i doubt adrien even knows he's autistic.
i doubt the writers even intended for adrien to seem so autistic coded, so don't take me saying this as 'this is definitely the truth.' if it helps, just see this as an AU that i really love.














