I met my husband after I became a Christian, I am so glad that I waited. Even though I chased him and pulled out every trick in the book, he showed me how to trust in men again: Even though I was raised in a christian family and i had a really good dad, he could not love me or show me the kind of love that heals other than pointing me to the one who could.- Christ. and It was Jesus who told me to wait one more Sunday, at our church, and my husband came to be the new youth worker. From that day on every time that i was anywhere, he was always on my mind, and while i was working i would always look up at the right time and see his car drive past our shop.
There is no one else in the world like him, he has been with me now married for 22 years, he showed me how to believe, and how to trust him, Every time that i pushed him away, he pulled me back, whenever i jumped out of his moving car he stalked my ass until I got back in, If we were fighting and i punched him, he grabbed me and cuddled me until i stopped being angry, if i walked home after fighting he ran after me, chased me at least 5km home; if he couldn’t stand in the doorway to stop me leaving.
I gave him every reason to hate me, and he never did. I wouldn’t have the marriage I have today, If I married anyone without Christ in their heart. So many obstacles come flying at us in life, and my husband has been there fighting almost every battle and almost every enemy with me. He has 100% trust in me and I trust him with my Life.
My mother always said to my husband when I was dating him, that he shouldn’t chase me other wise he would be chasing me and I would be fighting with him for the rest of my life. Thank God he didn’t listen to her. It really wasn’t true. Sorry mum! Everyone thought that we wouldn’t make it, and here we are Five kids later and sometimes a whole world of crazy. Our love wasn’t just built of the massive bunches of flowers that he showered me with, or the gifts that he gave me but It is what it is today and we are still together after so many ups and downs because of Christ.
