most days my baby being really particular doesn't bother me. but there's some days where i'm really tired, stressed out, overstimulated, and i just really wish she wasn't super particular. today she only wanted formula, not breast milk (yesterday it was the opposite). today for her nap she wanted one sleep sack not the other, then she didn't want either, then she wanted a specific blanket that i had to cycle through 7 different ones to find the right one. for those of you thinking "she's just a four month old baby. you tell her what she likes. she's not a fully formed human" i counter with: if you're faced with a screaming baby turning purple who will not be settled with anything until you find the exact thing she wants, you'd be bending over backwards to find the right blanket too