Normalizing Working Mothers
When I chose to go back to work a few months after having my daughter, I was accosted by family, friends, and coworkers. Mothers are expected to stay home and care for their children. When they don’t, society tends to flip working mothers into cold and distant facets of family life. However, even back in 1992, Hillary Clinton took a stand against criticism facing working mothers.
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“I suppose I could have stayed home and baked cookies and had teas, but what I decided to do was fulfill my profession, which I entered before my husband was in public life,” Clinton said to the press during her husband’s run for president.
Coming full circle, Beyoncé Knowles, a working mother herself, performed at a rally for Clinton with the iconic quote on screen behind her.
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Fitted in Clinton’s signature pantsuit, Knowles and her dancers performed “Formation” followed by a powerful speech appealing to mothers:
“Less than 100 years ago women did not have the right to vote. Look how far we’ve come from having no voice to being on the brink of making history. […]
The world looks to us as a progressive country that leads to change. […] And now we have the opportunity to create more change. I want my daughter to grow up seeing a woman lead our country, and know that her possibilities are limitless. We have to think about the future of our daughters, our sons, and vote for someone who cares for them as much as we do. And that is why, I’m with her,” Knowles said.
Mothers are not voting for Clinton just because she is a mother or a woman. They are voting for her because she is a powerful and qualified figure who happens to be a mother and can serve as a prominent example to little girls across the country that you don’t have to choose between children and work. More importantly, it tells working mothers today that working does not make them any less of a mother.
On Aug. 31 and Sep. 29, Clinton penned letters to reach working mothers applauding the role.
“Over the years, I've had a bit of a reputation for being a policy wonk. It's true! I sweat the small stuff. But I have a really good reason for doing that … [working mothers who are] pulling together kids at home, working multiple jobs, getting paid wages that are far too low, and trying to afford skyrocketing child care costs, tuition fees, health care, and so much more.
It’s easy to see how quickly all these challenges can pile up. For too many mothers (and fathers too!), succeeding at work while being there for family now requires nothing less than a heroic balancing act,” Clinton wrote.
In her next letter, she elaborated further: “I’ll never forget what it was like to be a mom at work. It wasn’t easy. And I was lucky: I had financial security, a supportive employer, and affordable childcare. Too many families don’t. I’ve met so many parents stuck in impossible situations, at their wits’ ends trying to make it all work. It just shouldn’t be this hard to work and have a family.”
This election is more than having the first female president or first mom in the White House. It is about breaking down stereotypes and progressing to previously unimaginable levels and inspiring mothers across the country. Thank you, Hillary Clinton, for putting my naysayers to shame.
Check out Clinton’s video on working mothers: