Hope you & your f/os have a great day & thank you for the ask! 😊 @bagelselfship @sweetjellyfilled-donut @sunandmoonships
📙 - how does your f/o identify in terms of gender and identity, versus you? is your f/o canonically sapphic, or did you (correctly!) headcanon this?
Rumi is female & a lesbian, like me. I headcanon Rumi is a lesbian!
🧡 - what was your first date like? was it an "official" date, or more low-key? comparatively, what was your first kiss like?
Rumi & I’s first date was going for a stroll. It was a very lovely, the weather was perfect. We talked a lot while we walked & we ate at a restaurant for lunch.
It was an official date!
Our first kiss was sweet & soft.
🍊 - how do your friends/platonic f/os feel about your relationship? are they supportive, do they tease you? maybe you make them feel more confident in their own identities?
My friends are happy for me & they're supportive. Few of my friends tease me. I made few of my friends feel more confident in their own identities.
🤍 - do you plan on marrying/have you married your f/o? what does it look like, how do you celebrate?
Yes, I'm planning on marrying Rumi someday.
🦢 - do you as a couple fall into a wlw category, like butchxfemme, or do you break those labels?
I'm the blue jeans lesbian & Rumi is the sporty lesbian.
🌸 - what are your most special, quiet moments with your f/o like? the times where nothing exists but the two of you, and you find perfect peace together?
It was when Rumi & I were in the living room alone. Rumi outstretched her hand with a smile. I took her hand & she gentle pulled me. We were slow dancing in the living room without the music, just gazing into each other.
🩷 - what are the unique ways your f/o expresses their love for you? are they a romantic, or more subtle? how about pda?
She cook my favorite meal, writes love notes, wraps her arms around me, hold my hand in public, cuddles me, rest her hand on my knee, serve me breakfast in bed, take care of me when I'm sick, text me sweet sayings, buys me flowers/gifts, & compliment me.
Yes, they are romantic & yes, she doesn't mind PDA, she likes showing me off!
🎀 - was your f/o your sapphic awakening? were you your f/o's? why not why not?
No, I liked on other women before I met Rumi. Yes, I was Rumi's sapphic awakening. She was questioning her sexuality for a long time.
