#bagriella

[loverboy--pdf]

so I was replying to my friend's mail and they were talking about high school musical so obviously I have to add my own opinion okay but I as I was writing "gabriella", I made a mistake. huge mistake. but it's also, quote, "the funniest shit I've seen in a while", unquote, so I shall share it with yall

no for real

real bagvati from znmd vibes oof

[lesbiampire]

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1. is cat hating misogyny

nooo. I mean, dogs are associated with men and cats are associated with women (for some reason?) so it’s definitely interesting to see how many so vehemently dislike cats whilst that dichotomy exists, but I feel saying it’s misogyny makes it deeper than it actually is (and seems to be comparing cat behaviour to women’s behaviour which I find odd). it’s interesting how as soon as an animal shows affection in a way we’re not used to people shun it, though. I’ve never liked someone who said they hated cats.

13. who is a better lesbian ally: straight women vs gay men

hmm… I feel weird saying this because I’m friends with plenty of straight women and I know presently zero gay men. but from what I’ve seen of gay guys who do care and do show up for us, it seems sincere and there’s also an understanding between us I think. liking the same sex is such a specific experience so I’m going to have to say gay men. both groups can be incredibly lesbophobic though so neither are immune to that.

29. asexuality

is not LGBT for many reasons. I’m sure it exists, many people say they are not attracted to either sex so that’s fair. but the split attraction model is sin and ‘romantic attraction’ meaningless - romance as a concept is a social construction that varies according to culture and generation so the idea that anyone could think it’s some form of biological hardwiring irt attraction is hilarious to me (sorry, needed to let that out kdjsakdja). if asexuality means no attraction to either sex then I get it… makes sense. you can’t be an asexual whateverromantic though.